I feel like a failure….

If this something that came on suddenly, I think some investigating should be done as to why! It could be nothing, but it could be something. I don’t think it’s your fault at all, and the fact that you’ve noticed the change is the most important part! 🤍 If she doesn’t open up to you about it much, maybe introducing a kind of therapist could be a good idea. Whether the anxiety is stemming from a certain event or person, or just anxiety in general, I think starting therapy could be very beneficial for her learning how to manage it!

Hey girly, You are not alone in this. My daughter was very attached to my mother-in-law since she was little and she was very social when we would go out. When my fiancés mom passed in Aug, my daughter kind of "shut down" as well. She would wave or smile at people. She would hide or put her head down. She is only 2 (feb) but I could tell a big difference. She has been getting more social with everyone she knows the last few months. You just have to give her time. You are doing great!!!

Has her dad told you if she’s been acting socially anxious when she’s with him too?