Sex.. seeking outside

I feel so guilty but also not. I have been ignored for many years by a gamer husband. I have spoken to my husband about it, we tried and it gets back to the same damn place again.
I started speaking to my ex. And got close to him, physically and emotionally. I dont know how to navigate this mess

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Sounds like ur unhappy in ur marriage unfortunately. And ur husband isn't listening which doesn't help also be careful with cheating it's considered adultery and is illegal in some states

if you’re not happy and he isn’t listening to you, leave him. cheating still isn’t an answer.

Dumb teenage and early 20s me felt this way a lot in relationships. I went to therapy and learned I needed to speak up for myself and if I was dismissed as you are being I needed to leave relationships. Get a divorce.

holy shit message me i’m in the same situation before the sex

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Bestie 🥰 ❔

Okaay now, still looking for my bestie or lilttle group! 😭 Ya girl has 0 friends and need some NEOOW. I am 28 year old Sahm with 2 boys and 29 weeks with another boy. And engaged. Any ladies in the Bartow/Floyd area looking for their mommy group/village ? 💕 Let’s plan something for this weekend to get to know eachother? Please do not message me if you are not seriousss.. Lets connect and find our community ladies ! 💖💖

Single moms/ looking for friends

Any single mommas out there that are tryna navigate life without their partner and are looking for friends? Preferably in my area ? But if not that’s totally fine! Message me pls! I can’t see waves :)

sex drive higher than your partners

I’ve never really questioned this much, but I’m starting to feel alone in this and wondering if others are experiencing this too.
my sex drive is higher than my male partners. Its been like this since Ive gotten pregnant with my first, (i have 1 kid and two tots)
I can go everyday, twice a day.. its the way i relax, release, it gives me the best sleep, morning sex gives me a perky start… i also cosleep with two of three kids.. and he sleeps with the other. we have been sleeping in seperate rooms for 3 years now. and the sex just gets better and better. the orgasms have gotten better, more frequent. it’s just great! lol
He cannot keep up. he is like once a week mayb once every 10 daysish. ive been told female sex drive increases in their 30s while males decreases.
Am I alone?!

School cliques!

Any advice on not being in the school “Mum Clique”, it’s depressing and I don’t want to push myself on anyone. If friendships don’t fully form, I don’t push. But I always thought I would be great friends with the other Mums in my child’s school.

2nd question did you envision adulthood for it to be nothing of the sort? (Comment your response for this one please)

Workout

Can anyone recommend any home workout apps/videos? Trying to shift baby weight. I go swimming and walking everyday but need something for when my kids are (hopefully) napping 😂

Bored

Anyone wanna talk feel like i got stuff on my mind I can't get off