Little boy is 10 months old but super attached .He’s been breastfed since birth but have now switched to formula everything is going well apart from bedtime or anytime he’s on his own , he’s very distressed when I place him in his cot and I end up going into his room endless times in the space of 30 minutes then just give up and place him in my bed . No judgement please just any helpful tips I can try .I also don’t want to do the cry it out method . Again no judgement that’s just something I don’t want to do
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Have you tried staying in the room with him? I sit with mine, all I say is ‘bedtime’ if he reacts to me being there. Sometimes it can take about 20-30 mins for him to fully settle but on a normal night takes about 5 mins x

I co-slept with my first until she was 10months, and honestly it sounds horrible but I just let her cry it out, I stayed in the room with her so she could see me and I’d remind her that she’s okay, if she got really upset i would sit next to her and just place my hand on her chest and that would settle her, but it does take time! Also try putting a mussy in your T-shirt or something so it smells like you and let him have that at bedtime x
Thank you for all the reply’s I think it’s a case of just being consistent and not picking him up
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