What do we think?

I don’t know if anyone else can see the line, but in person it has a blue tint. Last night, I took an Equate test from Walmart and it was negative. When I checked it this morning, the control line was gone too. This wasn’t first morning urine, and I had a large drink before taking the test. I only had a blue-dye test and a digital test left, and if I am pregnant, I think it may be too early for a digital test to show a positive result.

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Pregnant at 3 months PP ?😬

First off; I know what unprotected sex leads too. I’m a mum of 3.

I had unprotected sex last weekend (early hours of Sunday morning 🫣)
It was stupid, I’m a single parent with no dad on the scene and an old friend come over for a catch up and one thing led to another..
obviously being very freshly postpartum I’m quite erm, fertile shall we say 🫣😅

I’ve had 2 periods since having baby and last one I believe was very beginning of may. I have PCOS so they’re a bit all over the place usually and just having a baby doesn’t help either.
But, I’ve had some quite mild cramping and an increase in white (I hate this word with a passion) discharge.

I know it’s too early to test right now but when should I be testing?
According to my Flo app I should have ovulated on 10th June. 3 days after I danced with the devil.

We listen and we don’t judge so if that’s what you wanna do, kindly go elsewhere.

Thanks!!!

Only child guilt - looking for advice

I’m really torn about whether to have another child or stay a family of three (my son is 3 years old, nearly 4).

We currently have one child and are comfortable financially, and our home/lifestyle works well as it is. I’ve always leaned towards one child, especially after a difficult birth experience, and I’m only just feeling like myself again.

But lately I’ve been feeling a lot of guilt and doubt, mainly from seeing content about siblings. I worry my son might miss out on having a sibling, even though he has friends and social opportunities.

At the same time, I know having another baby would mean big changes — less time for my son, tighter finances, career impact, and less flexibility.

I can imagine both lives, which is why I feel stuck. Has anyone else been in this position deciding whether to stop at one? How did you decide, and did you regret it either way?

10mo doesn’t like boiled egg

Any advice?

IVF referral - waiting time

Hope somebody can help me.
I had all basic test done with GP and finally got the referral with 1 listed hospital near me.

When I wanted to book the appointment the website said no availability and there are 3 options.
- check again later
- choose other clinic (was only listed 1, so no option to change)
- request contact

I did request but the message said if they dont contact until aug 10 call them.

Is this normal to wait this long for only 1 appointment in the IVF process?
My age is an issue, so I cannot wait that long, also it said the average time is 19weeks...

What other options do i have?
Please help.

Raised BBT, 12DPO, negative test?!

9th cycle. Early detection test from clear blue used and a supermarket red dye. My heart hurts. Can anyone reassure? Have you tested negative on 12DPO and been pregnant that cycle?

Two days late? Hoping that my period is just late and that I’m not pregnant again!

After I gave birth to my son, my periods did take a couple of months to adjust but then they became fairly regular. I’d say I have a 26-27 day cycle. A multitude of things could be going on, delayed ovulation, maybe stress, etc. I’m getting a pregnancy test to rule things out though. I’m hoping it’ll come later on today and that I’m overreacting. I’m praying that my period is late and it’s nothing else 😭anyone else gone through the same thing?