Is anybody feeling really disconnected lately.
I'm a single mum to twins, and I don't really have any free time to myself and when family does come round they just hold my babies so I can do washing up and house work and they call me selfish for wanting one of them back. So I'm just sitting there doing nothing.
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have you tried depression meds? can be really beneficial

Go out for walks or try the gym when you have family come and visit. Leave chores until babies have gone to sleep. I used to manage doing cooking whilst bub played in a play pen with some toys. Stick some sensory things on the tv or put on some music to keep them occupied. You can do this!
I used to go to the gym but I sprained my knee and haven't been able to go over 3 months I don't really have that much time to rest it or even do exercises for it.
I'm on depression meds but don't really feel like they are working
And when I did go gym I felt like I was on a time crunch and had to be back at a certain time so I can go home and sort the babies out so couldn't even really relax and de stress