Bonding with dad

Hi, is anyone one else struggling to get the baby to bond with dad? They were fine when he was on paternity leave, but now she just won’t settle on him at all, and starts crying as soon as he holds her, which is heartbreaking.

She’s won’t settle on anyone really, only mummy will do.

If you’re experiencing / experienced this, any recommendations on what can get done? Will it get better with time?

in our community

Question to everyone but specifically for people with darker skin tones. How would you like parents to talk to their kids if the child mentioned your skin color?

Not in any sort of bad way. But like I have two toddlers the younger one is learning colors. We had a pest control guy come and he had a black truck he is also a black guy so my daughter recognized it but that’s it. I’d like to know how you guys would appreciate me talk to her about it or acknowledging that yes he is a different color but to one day not be rude about it. Something like that. Please let me know if this doesn’t make sense. It wasn’t the first time she’s seen a person of color but because she was talking about the truck that’s why it was brought up. So now do I just go yeah he is black isn’t that cool? Or what do you think?

Positive?

All these photos were taken directly aftwr my 3 min timer. Thoughts.

Confused

Right… I’m so confused. My period is due today, and for the past week I had a slight feeling that I might be pregnant. Terrified as we have a one year old - we weren’t trying. Anyway, most of my symptoms were indicating pregnancy, so I took test on Saturday ( can see faint line - shocked as this is what I had with my first daughter), Sunday different test showing negative, Monday - test showed a faint line within the time frame then it disappeared, took another test this morning and is negative. I’m slightly relieved, but confused and also a bit sad after yesterday’s test. What the hell was that?

I wanted to post more photos. The one I’m attaching is the first test.

Im an idiot and somebody needs to stop me please

Ladies, I’m 4 days past ovulation and like a fool I’ve been testing already. Of course there’s no line and it made me sad. I’ve definitely had the eye lines too pretending to myself that there’s something there. But really I’ve just made myself cross eyed.

I have a little girl already and I did the same crazy behaviour of testing way too early and then getting upset. I need to stop this crazy behaviour. I forgot how hard the TWW is.

6 weeks of Tinziparin injections. How many did you actually do?

If you weren’t advised to take Tinziparin injections post partum or were only asked to do 2 weeks please use the final answer

What do we think?

I don’t know if anyone else can see the line, but in person it has a blue tint. Last night, I took an Equate test from Walmart and it was negative. When I checked it this morning, the control line was gone too. This wasn’t first morning urine, and I had a large drink before taking the test. I only had a blue-dye test and a digital test left, and if I am pregnant, I think it may be too early for a digital test to show a positive result.