Partner watching only fans.

Sex multiple times before 6 weeks? Oh lord.

For my husband and I, this would be cheating. Especially when it’s something like OF that is being paid for.

It isn't right. Follow your gut. Outsourcing intimacy to strangers on the Internet makes you uncomfortable because it carries the same sensation as cheating. I'd say many women report the same reactions as they would have toward infidelity regarding this area. means he lacks self discipline, respect in a capacity, or some kind of perspective for how that would make you feel. I will say, this is a massive problem among men now, to the point finding men who don't watch this stuff or pay to see women naked is nearly impossible, but that doesn't mean you have to keep quiet or normalize this in your mind. Many men were exposed in their teenage years to something way more addictive than magazines and now they and us are paying for that addiction of usually 10+ years. Their perspective of love and intimacy is naturally different, and I struggle to decide if this is cultural or biological, but it doesn't have to be such a divide. You really need to feel safe and wanted by the person who claims to choose you.