I need advice

I’ve never been in this situation, but I can only imagine it’s frustrating and heartbreaking at the same time. The only advice I could offer is maybe try couples therapy if you guys still want to make things work, or if it’s better for your mental health, go your separate ways and co-parent. I know no body imagines this for themselves especially when they have a baby with that person. In order to take care of baby, you have to take care of you. Sending love and support and feel free to reach out, I’d never judge🫶🏼

I personally would leave and co parent as amicably as possible, you deserve better

Leave girl he’s not changing and you don’t want your kids to grow up seeing that and think it’s okay

Just leave and co-parent.

Walk away.. I know it’s not what you want to do and I’m sure you love this man but letting him continue to break your heart and break the trust and family he created w you is no way to live. If he’s not willing to change for you then you must protect yourself and your children and leave before more time is wasted and in the end you will walk away but at the cost of your entire 20s 30s and walking away w now trauma at an older age is not how you want to end up .. Know your worth bbygirl but I know it hurts ❤️

1 time, okay let’s work it out. 2 times, maybe let’s try again but #4, no mam. I’m so sorry this is happening to you but he is showing his true colors. You have to at least show him what he’s missing or that you will not take that treatment. Im no therapist but I don’t see him stopping especially if he knows you’re just gonna stay.
I understand having a hard time letting go, ive been there girl and cant even imagine how hard that is with kids involved but at least put a little fear in his ass.
Sending you love and prayers 🙏🏾❤️

I would leave he doesn’t want help, he doesn’t respect you and he wants to live single .. show him what it’s like to lose you