Sensitive topic child abuse

I have a very good friend who has an older daughter 22 years old. My very good friend called me a month ago sobbing saying her daughter was being charged with possession of child pornography. It makes me sick to my stomach to even type this. My friend said her daughter was sent a link from someone online and she opened it. Well.. I ran the daughter’s background check. She was charged with possessing over 1000 images etc. it wasn’t just one link she unknowingly clicked. So my friend lied or maybe the daughter lied to her idk. Here is my dilemma. I have a 6 month old and three older teens. I don’t even want to be friends with my friend anymore and I feel terrible saying that but I just can not. I know it was her daughter and not her but I want nothing to do with any of this. My friend is helping her daughter fight in court, giving her a place to live, and i understand that’s her kid but I have so many thoughts running through my head right now that some of these thoughts may be ignorant... such as.. Is this a sickness that was passed down to her daughter from one of her parents? Was the daughter abused by someone (possibly my friend???) and it’s made her do this? Am I a terrible person?????

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Bed time in this heatwave

So my little girl usually has her regular naps during the day she only had 20 minutes for her second one and now she’s absolutly exhausted at 5:30. Trying to keep her awake is proving difficult and she’s becoming agitated because she’s tired. I’m worried if I let her sleep too early she’s going to be up during the night? Any suggestions? Her wake window had now passed 4 hours

Room is between 26-27

Im a new mum Im am abouslty scared of having the risk of sids with a room temp this high in our bed room this is where lo stays in his net to me crib. Hes only 6 and half weeks old and he is just in his nappy xx

How do I end contact naps (not altogether) But at least one transfer to the moses throughout the day!? Need help!

As much as I love comforting my baby girl, she will only nap if she's being held (contact naps) all day, every day. But then night time, she will be transferred to her crib and will sleep through the night.. It really does baffle me!!

Has anyone managed to gently transition their little one to more independent sleep? I can’t get nothing done throughout each day, even the smallest of things! As much as I love bonding through contact naps, one transfer would be so good too!

Would love tips or encouragement from anyone who’s been through this! I feel like I’ve tried about everything, dark room, deep sleep, in the pram.. you’ll probably name it and I’ve tried it 😪…

I don’t want to be made to feel guilty for wanting some time without LO on my chest, I feel people that’ll say ‘enjoy it’ When experiencing it, it can be very tough, lonely and sometimes frustrating!
Of course I enjoy it and of course I will miss it when they no longer happen!!

27c bedroom - will baby be ok in this?

FTM here and my baby is 3 months old. Our bedroom is 27c in this awful heatwave, I currently have him in his nappy and 0.5 tog sleep bag (one of the transitional ones with arms) - will he be ok in this? I’ve unzipped the sleeping bag and he has an oscillating fan on which is reaching his next to me every so often

Mosses basket

What are babies sleeping in downstairs once they’ve outgrown their mosses basket?

We have a next to me upstairs. But i don’t think she’ll be in her mosses basket downstairs for much longer!

Any recommendations for what to use instead? We also have an 18 month old, so needs to be toddler proof 😅 (and not another next to me)

Sleep in this heat!!

How’re we getting our babies to sleep in this heat?🥵🙃 any tips?? Our room is 28 degrees and little one is just crying😩 dunno what else I can do!