Biomom refuses to share report card

It’s so frustrating and she is so lame for it. SD has been out of school since the 10th officially, report cards have been available online since then. My husband has been asking her since then to either provide the login credentials or send him a copy of the report card. (She lives in a different state and has removed him from school records due to the excessive unexcused absences—whenever SD was absent, he’d receive a call from the school and he would reach out to bio to ask why she was missing the day. She didn’t like being questioned so she took him off everything)

The other day, he asked yet again, hey where is the report card. SD has been with us since school ended, and we would like to see how the year ended so we can celebrate or discipline appropriately. Instead, her responses have been “I’ll get it to you when I get a chance,” “I haven’t been home in a few days,” (which was a blatant lie and my personal favorite “since you want to press me on this topic, where’s my $400 for the month?!”

My husband responded with, “neither myself nor our child knows how she ended the year. We both deserve to know what she did/didn’t do well on. It doesn’t take 2 weeks to gather this information that is online. And she has been with me primarily this month, the money you are requesting has already been spent on her for summer clothes.”

I think he handled it lovely but I think she’s a corny bitch for keeping him out of the loop bc she doesn’t want to see that their daughter is primarily failing under her care and has missed more days than we know to be true. She’s a bird IMO would you agree?

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Another woman supposedly had a daughter from my fiancé who I’m pregnant from now

So, what do you think about all of this.
I’ve been with my fiancé since November last year, before me, he dated for 3 months from July to October, a woman he met in Ibiza (from the Netherlands), she said she was 25 but in fact was 33, and he brought her to the USA after Ibiza, she then left to the Netherlands so.
She claimed to be on the pill, and according to him they talked on the phone only until basically early December when he decided to ask me to be his girlfriend, and then me and him started doing everything together traveling, etc. I moved in January with him and we’ve been strong, got engaged and now I am 7 weeks pregnant from our planned pregnancy!

Last Friday he received an offer demand letter from a lawyer she also wants him to pay, of 10k month she wants him to pay for a daughter that was born may 5th.
She did not include any birth certificate, didn’t say the name of the baby, didn’t ask for any DNA test and just wanted to set it outside the court.
My fiancé went ahead and filled a suit in the Netherlands so we will find her hospital records, if there is a baby, if it’s his.

The 2 things that struck me the most is if she had a 40 week pregnancy or even 38… she would have had to have conceived in August, by October she was here in person 2 months pregnant doesn’t say a thing, so by December she is 4 months pregnant, talking to him on the phone and doesn’t say a thing? About this?
Also I found a blood stain on the bed when I moved here and it was from her he said, but the lease on this place only started late August so how is there a stain if she was pregnant while here?
She blocked him when he told her he wanted to date me in December and disappeared, never said anything to him, and appeared using a lawyer from Miami she didn’t pay yet to demand her demands. Also the baby was born may 5th according to her.
Why wait 6 weeks after this birth to send a demand for child support letter?
It was a draft from this lawyer but to me it’s crazy, not including any evidence that a baby exists even. I looked her up online it’s almost like she is a ghost.
And my fiancé said she would try to get money from ex boyfriends when she run out of money.

Why would you be the whole pregnancy not saying a word to him? She still hasn’t said anything besides this lawyer email.

I wonder if she just got pregnant for this child support literally because she knows he is rich? Or if it’s a child scam, and she tries this with several exes on a regular basis.
He thinks now that she is an international hocker, because she has no career, and supposedly just gets random money sometimes.
She is also very aggressive, would threaten him, treat him bad…
Imagine if my son has a sister from a person like this.

Now we will have to wait basically weeks or months to find out. Imagine going through this in the first trimester, it sucks.

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Flexi working denied

For context me and my partner both work on the same department in the same company but on different teams with different functions.

Around 3 months ago my partner put in a request to condense his hours in to a 4 day week with one day off to look after our baby. I was also looking to do the same so our baby would only need to go to nursery 3 days and family members are helping with pick up/after nursery.

My partner's hours for some reason only got agreed yesterday and he has been given Wednesday off. Because it took so long to agree we lost one of the days we had reserved (we were able to reserve 4/5 before for some wiggle room).

We're now stuck with needing Monday covered and I've just been told I can't get it off.

I just don't really know what to do now, the only reason we don't have Monday is because they took so long!

I've emailed the nursery to see if we can get back on the waitlist for Monday. If I don't go back at all I will have to pay back some of my enhanced pay.
Just stuck really!