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For context me and my partner both work on the same department in the same company but on different teams with different functions.

Around 3 months ago my partner put in a request to condense his hours in to a 4 day week with one day off to look after our baby. I was also looking to do the same so our baby would only need to go to nursery 3 days and family members are helping with pick up/after nursery.

My partner's hours for some reason only got agreed yesterday and he has been given Wednesday off. Because it took so long to agree we lost one of the days we had reserved (we were able to reserve 4/5 before for some wiggle room).

We're now stuck with needing Monday covered and I've just been told I can't get it off.

I just don't really know what to do now, the only reason we don't have Monday is because they took so long!

I've emailed the nursery to see if we can get back on the waitlist for Monday. If I don't go back at all I will have to pay back some of my enhanced pay.
Just stuck really!

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Another woman supposedly had a daughter from my fiancé who I’m pregnant from now

So, what do you think about all of this.
I’ve been with my fiancé since November last year, before me, he dated for 3 months from July to October, a woman he met in Ibiza (from the Netherlands), she said she was 25 but in fact was 33, and he brought her to the USA after Ibiza, she then left to the Netherlands so.
She claimed to be on the pill, and according to him they talked on the phone only until basically early December when he decided to ask me to be his girlfriend, and then me and him started doing everything together traveling, etc. I moved in January with him and we’ve been strong, got engaged and now I am 7 weeks pregnant from our planned pregnancy!

Last Friday he received an offer demand letter from a lawyer she also wants him to pay, of 10k month she wants him to pay for a daughter that was born may 5th.
She did not include any birth certificate, didn’t say the name of the baby, didn’t ask for any DNA test and just wanted to set it outside the court.
My fiancé went ahead and filled a suit in the Netherlands so we will find her hospital records, if there is a baby, if it’s his.

The 2 things that struck me the most is if she had a 40 week pregnancy or even 38… she would have had to have conceived in August, by October she was here in person 2 months pregnant doesn’t say a thing, so by December she is 4 months pregnant, talking to him on the phone and doesn’t say a thing? About this?
Also I found a blood stain on the bed when I moved here and it was from her he said, but the lease on this place only started late August so how is there a stain if she was pregnant while here?
She blocked him when he told her he wanted to date me in December and disappeared, never said anything to him, and appeared using a lawyer from Miami she didn’t pay yet to demand her demands. Also the baby was born may 5th according to her.
Why wait 6 weeks after this birth to send a demand for child support letter?
It was a draft from this lawyer but to me it’s crazy, not including any evidence that a baby exists even. I looked her up online it’s almost like she is a ghost.
And my fiancé said she would try to get money from ex boyfriends when she run out of money.

Why would you be the whole pregnancy not saying a word to him? She still hasn’t said anything besides this lawyer email.

I wonder if she just got pregnant for this child support literally because she knows he is rich? Or if it’s a child scam, and she tries this with several exes on a regular basis.
He thinks now that she is an international hocker, because she has no career, and supposedly just gets random money sometimes.
She is also very aggressive, would threaten him, treat him bad…
Imagine if my son has a sister from a person like this.

Now we will have to wait basically weeks or months to find out. Imagine going through this in the first trimester, it sucks.

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So random but ive always wondered how people have sex standing up? I was watching Scandal (lol) and they were stood having sex up against a wall. She was facing the wall but wasnt bent so im confused how his penis got in and stayed in when he was behind her?! I wont lie it got me 😮‍💨😮‍💨

It might be baby brain but its something ive never tried (but now want to) but my partner is 6"6 and i'm 5"3 🤣🤣

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