Single mum friends?

Is there any single mums that are looking for new friends? I have a 4 and a half month old, I’ve been doing it on my own since I was 3 weeks pregnant. I’m looking for someone to have a good laugh with 😊

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Loneliness

Hi has anyone felt lonely recently i have a 4 month old i have no friends no partner no one no family im all by myself no one likes me and idk what to do i really wish i was better for my daughter that maybe I could have given her friends but i ruined that for her

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Another girl supposedly had a daughter from my fiance who I’m pregnant from now

Soo, what do you think about all of this.
I’ve been with my fiancé since November last year, before me, he dated for 3 months from July to October, a woman he met in Ibiza (from the Netherlands), she said she was 25 but in fact was 33, and he brought her to the USA after Ibiza, she then left to the Netherlands so.
She claimed to be on the pill, and according to him they talked on the phone only until basically early December when he decided to ask me to be his girlfriend, and then me and him started doing everything together traveling, etc. I moved in January with him and we’ve been strong, got engaged and now I am 7 weeks pregnant from our planned pregnancy!

Last Friday he received an offer demand letter from a lawyer she also wants him to pay, of 10k month she wants him to pay for a daughter that was born may 5th.
She did not include any birth certificate, didn’t say the name of the baby, didn’t ask for any DNA test and just wanted to set it outside the court.
My fiancé went ahead and filled a suit in the Netherlands so we will find her hospital records, if there is a baby, if it’s his.

The 2 things that struck me the most is if she had a 40 week pregnancy or even 38… she would have had to have conceived in August, by October she was here in person 2 months pregnant doesn’t say a thing, so by December she is 4 months pregnant, talking to him on the phone and doesn’t say a thing? About this?
Also I found a blood stain on the bed when I moved here and it was from her he said, but the lease on this place only started late August so how is there a stain if she was pregnant while here?
She blocked him when he told her he wanted to date me in December and disappeared, never said anything to him, and appeared using a lawyer from Miami she didn’t pay yet to demand her demands. Also the baby was born may 5th according to her.
Why wait 6 weeks after this birth to send a demand for child support letter?
It was a draft from this lawyer but to me it’s crazy, not including any evidence that a baby exists even. I looked her up online it’s almost like she is a ghost.
And my fiancé said she would try to get money from ex boyfriends when she run out of money.

Why would you be the whole pregnancy not saying a word to him? She still hasn’t said anything besides this lawyer email.

I wonder if she just got pregnant for this child support literally because she knows he is rich? Or if it’s a child scam, and she tries this with several exes on a regular basis.
He thinks now that she is an international hocker, because she has no career, and supposedly just gets random money sometimes.
She is also very aggressive, would threaten him, treat him bad…
Imagine if my son has a sister from a person like this.

Now we will have to wait basically weeks or months to find out. Imagine going through this in the first trimester, it sucks.

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Random

So random but ive always wondered how people have sex standing up? I was watching Scandal (lol) and they were stood having sex up against a wall. She was facing the wall but wasnt bent so im confused how his penis got in and stayed in when he was behind her?! I wont lie it got me 😮‍💨😮‍💨

It might be baby brain but its something ive never tried (but now want to) but my partner is 6"6 and i'm 5"3 🤣🤣

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new friends

hiiii girliessss , i’m looking for more friends! i have a almost 4 month old daughter that’s sweet & sassy (a bit feral i can’t lie lol) & i’m also a bereaved mama to a baby boy. motherhood definitely feels lonely & post partum suckssss & im finding myself again. i cannot see waves so please comment or message me!!

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Contraception

Hi all I'm currently 19+5 weeks pregnant i know I'm thinking way ahead but what is the best contraception that also won't make me put on weight? This pregnancy hasn't been too great I don't want another one for at least 3 years
Thank you xx

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Anyone feeling really antisocial?

In the final couple of weeks and just want to be left alone all of a sudden. I don’t feel depressed or stressed or anything, I just don’t want to be around people, chat, go out and socialise, etc. I just want quiet time at home with my partner or alone

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