Loneliness

Hi has anyone felt lonely recently i have a 4 month old i have no friends no partner no one no family im all by myself no one likes me and idk what to do i really wish i was better for my daughter that maybe I could have given her friends but i ruined that for her

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No you haven’t ❤️ it’s not easy making mum friends have you got any baby groups near you?

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Sorry you are feeling that way! You definitely haven’t ruined anything, four months is so early! Lots of people I know, hadn’t even really made it out of the house at that point, so kudos to you for trying already! Plenty of time to make some friends for you and for her

Sorry that it sounds like a baby group you have gone to hasn’t been very nice.
Definitely recommend trying some other ones.

We go to lots of different groups and sometimes people are really friendly and chatty, other times people are already there in groups and not interested in socialising. It can feel a little bit relentless, but hopefully you’ll find your people

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I'm so sorry that this has happened to you and you have not ruined anything for her. Unfortunately we cannot change the actions from others and it's just cruel that they can be so mean to a baby or anyone for that matter. Pop me a message whenever you want my inbox is open x

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Loneliness

Hi has anyone felt lonely recently i have a 4 month old i have no friends no partner no one no family im all by myself no one likes me and idk what to do i really wish i was better for my daughter that maybe I could have given her friends but i ruined that for her

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