Another girl supposedly had a daughter from my fiance who I’m pregnant from now
Soo, what do you think about all of this.
I’ve been with my fiancé since November last year, before me, he dated for 3 months from July to October, a woman he met in Ibiza (from the Netherlands), she said she was 25 but in fact was 33, and he brought her to the USA after Ibiza, she then left to the Netherlands so.
She claimed to be on the pill, and according to him they talked on the phone only until basically early December when he decided to ask me to be his girlfriend, and then me and him started doing everything together traveling, etc. I moved in January with him and we’ve been strong, got engaged and now I am 7 weeks pregnant from our planned pregnancy!
Last Friday he received an offer demand letter from a lawyer she also wants him to pay, of 10k month she wants him to pay for a daughter that was born may 5th.
She did not include any birth certificate, didn’t say the name of the baby, didn’t ask for any DNA test and just wanted to set it outside the court.
My fiancé went ahead and filled a suit in the Netherlands so we will find her hospital records, if there is a baby, if it’s his.
The 2 things that struck me the most is if she had a 40 week pregnancy or even 38… she would have had to have conceived in August, by October she was here in person 2 months pregnant doesn’t say a thing, so by December she is 4 months pregnant, talking to him on the phone and doesn’t say a thing? About this?
Also I found a blood stain on the bed when I moved here and it was from her he said, but the lease on this place only started late August so how is there a stain if she was pregnant while here?
She blocked him when he told her he wanted to date me in December and disappeared, never said anything to him, and appeared using a lawyer from Miami she didn’t pay yet to demand her demands. Also the baby was born may 5th according to her.
Why wait 6 weeks after this birth to send a demand for child support letter?
It was a draft from this lawyer but to me it’s crazy, not including any evidence that a baby exists even. I looked her up online it’s almost like she is a ghost.
And my fiancé said she would try to get money from ex boyfriends when she run out of money.
Why would you be the whole pregnancy not saying a word to him? She still hasn’t said anything besides this lawyer email.
I wonder if she just got pregnant for this child support literally because she knows he is rich? Or if it’s a child scam, and she tries this with several exes on a regular basis.
He thinks now that she is an international hocker, because she has no career, and supposedly just gets random money sometimes.
She is also very aggressive, would threaten him, treat him bad…
Imagine if my son has a sister from a person like this.
Now we will have to wait basically weeks or months to find out. Imagine going through this in the first trimester, it sucks.
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So you have only been with this man for 5 months?
I mean this is all red flags even your relationship but I would request DNA test and if it is his child he needs to take responsibility
Your husband needs to hire a lawyer, demand a paternity test, and fight her back. Also ask the lawyer what kind of documentation (texts, emails, voice recordings and etc) can be used in court against her. TBH she does sound a little bit unhinged or unfit to be a mom.
Best case scenario, this is not your husband’s child. Worse case scenario, the girl is his. You guys can still prove she is unfit to be a mom. The baby gets taken from her. Would you be able to consider the option to adopt the girl and be her mom?
Legally find out if the child is his and if so have him added to the birth certificate and start discussions on him spending time with his daughter via a court ordered agreement. If it's a scam it won't withstand in courts.
I mean, you really know nothing about this women other than what a man says about an ex. You have no proof it’s a scam or something “she tries with several exes on a regular basis”.
Definitely get hold of all the records and do every DNA test possible to confirm it but at the end of the day, it’s two to tango and he needs to be responsible for a child he’s created.
It’s an awful situation for all involved but you know nothing about this mother and her baby. He could have been seeing the two of you and telling you both a bunch of lies.
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