Rant

My fiancé wasn’t around for our daughter she’s now 3.. we got back together when she was 18 months and I lived alone and raised our daughter on my own till then.
We just had another baby, he’s 2 months old, and my fiancé just went back to work after not working for a while, he usually praises me and is kind and loving.. although today out of nowhere he said I don’t do anything, I just sit at home and hold the baby… meanwhile I clean the house, do the laundry and feed both kids (breastfeed 2 month old) and I make sure dinner or at least a plan for dinner (whether that’s take out or homemade) is ready by the time he gets home, I bathe and put the kids to bed.. he does help on side things and getting them ready for bed too.. but doesn’t realize how hard it is to get things done during the day with a bag who always wants to be held or on the boob… I’m use to this because I know I raised our daughter on my own, and I just don’t think he knows what a baby is like… it’s frustrating trying to explain it because he doesn’t get it and just thinks I’m lazy and don’t do anything… but I can also get a lot more things done when he’s home and can help me hold him so I can clean up dinner or get our toddler ready for bed.. I don’t know what to do. Im feeling really shitty about myself

in our community

Nursery fee refund

So our nursery is closing due to the heat which is fair enough but are we entitled to our fees back? I get they have no control over the weather but the way I look at it I’m self employed and I can’t charge my clients for not coming in for it being too hot so I’m going to be losing a weeks wages to look after little one 😅

What would you do in this situation? (UK)

My mum told me that her neighbour looks after her granddaughter sometimes, and she can hear her neighbour screaming and shouting at the granddaughter constantly, so loud that she can hear her through the wall.

She says she doesn't want to say anything or get anyone else involved because she needs to live there next to her and doesn't want any trouble, so she just turns the TV up all the way to drown out the noise.

Part of me understands why she wouldn't want to get involved, but also if its as bad as she says, and that constant too, perhaps its worth investigating? (She says it's every time she is looking after the little girl, like several times a week. She doesn't know how old the girl is but guesses maybe 3 or 4 years old)

I'm not really sure what is the done thing in this situation? Would you mention it to the neighbour? Would you call someone? Who? Would you just ignore it as its none of your business?

Introducing purées

My son is 3 months old and I’m on the fence about following what my parents and grandparents say I should be doing like adding baby cereal to his bottles and I don’t know if I should start that while on the other hand my baby does bring his hands to his mouth but isn’t sitting up on his own and does have good head and neck control. What is y’all’s stance?

Not reaching for toys

My baby is 3 months old and has no interest in reaching for toys
Open to any suggestions or even toy suggestions
I don’t know if it’s still too early and I shouldn’t be worried
I just don’t want him to fall behind in learning skills

Am I in the wrong?

So I’m very possessive when it comes to my son who is 19 months old. I mostly stay at my mums during the day and then come home for the night as I live 2 doors away from my mum.

My sister comes over at times but she does live around 15-20 mins away 2 doorss away from my mum lives my relatives they even know my son and me be at my mums most of the times. Anyways long story short they called my niece to go play at their garden with their 2 nephews but didn’t ask my son to am I wrong to get angry over that. Without thinking I had a go at them saying why they singled my son out but I think I did too much …

Weaning

I’ve started to wean my baby he’s 17 weeks & 5 days
We have done rusk and milk he’s got bored so today we did try little bit of Aldi apple carrot and parsnip which he loves and 4months+ so I’ve done a little at lunch time and little at dinner time so not overly too much. Have people starting doing it and what are they using etc what times please I’m stuck on the when we go out of what todo!
I know some people will hate me to starting early but I’m his mum please no negativity