How to cut off "friend"?

She only messages when there is problems going on with her husband. She moved and when she first did it was me reaching out to see how she was doing. Then there was no communication until something happened between her and husband. She hasn't asked about my kids or pregnancy. Could be hormones but I dont have the time or energy for it anymore, even though she doesn't live close anymore

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I had a friend like this I didn’t have to cut her off it phased out naturally
I just stop reaching out and being available.

The best friend is who you are having issues with ? Or someone else in the group?

I had a best friend like this. Our entire friendship was based on her dealing with DV and cheating. She would call me crying, call the girls he cheated with and try to intimidate or befriend them but she never directed anything towards him or trying to actually get herself the help she needed. When I went through something extremely traumatic, she still made it about herself. We’re no longer friends… it ended very ugly. Your best bet is to just ghost her the way she has done you and save your peace and sanity.

Ohh just be really dry 🤷🏾‍♀️
You don’t have to change much just don’t over extend yourself or respond to 1 on 1 conversations.
If they bring it up and notice the change then be honest and let them know you felt the friendship was one sided so you decided to pull back.

Ohh ok so it should be easy .
It doesn’t have to be anger or resentment.
People are allowed to be who they want.
You are also allowed to hold your boundaries and say this friendship isn’t working for me.

It definitely sucks having a one sided connection and I’m sorry you went through this
Some people just are so wrapped up in there lives they forget others exist and need support as well.

Anxiety is no excuse to be a crap friend

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