Fussy hour

Does anyone else’s baby seem to be really fussy between 8pm and 11pm? They only want to be held and the moment you put them down they scream the house down. Feed them, change them, play music/sing to them…none of it works to soothe them and get them to sleep

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Mum Guilt After My 6-Week-Old Baby Fell on the Floor

I’m really upset and struggling with a lot of mum guilt right now. My six-week-old baby loves sleeping on my chest, especially when we’re lying on the bed. Lately I’ve been extremely sleep deprived and haven’t been getting much rest. This morning at around 3:45 a.m., I woke up to a loud thump followed by my baby crying. When I opened my eyes, I realised he had fallen onto the floor. I was absolutely devastated.

I immediately called 111 and took him straight to A&E. Thankfully, he was examined by the doctors and discharged, and they reassured me that he was fine.

Normally, if I’m lying down with him, I put him back in his cot or beside me once he’s settled. I honestly don’t remember falling asleep. The last thing I remember is patting him to sleep, and then I woke up to hear him crying on the floor.

Seeing my six-week-old baby lying there broke my heart. I can’t stop replaying the moment in my mind and blaming myself for what happened. I know it was an accident, but I feel terrible.

My baby struggles with reflux and hates sleeping in his cot, which is why he often settles best when he’s on me. However, after this scare, I’m determined to be much more careful and make sure he’s sleeping in a safe space, even if it’s more difficult and means less sleep for me.

I’m just feeling incredibly guilty and upset about the whole situation.

Baby rolling at night

So my baby has just started to roll at night, but my Lordy she’s up every hour crying on her front, i literally don’t know what to do, she’s in her big cot in her own room but I just can’t deal with getting up every hour to settle her, she has a dummy so I don’t know if she just wants her dummy and to be left to be on her front or what, please someone help we are tired and grouchy over here 😂

‘Cry it out’ in my arms

My one month old sometimes cannot be settled despite having all their needs met. Is it ok if I hold him in my arms/on my chest and let him ‘cry it out’? I feel like I’m burning out trying to do all sorts of acrobatic manoeuvres to calm him down. I DO NOT believe in letting a baby cry it out alone/self-soothe. I think it’s harmful and I never want to do that but I was wondering if letting him cry whilst on me was any different because he can feel he’s not alone? Or should I always take all possible measures to get him to stop crying?

Exclusively breastfeeding to formula

My little one is six weeks old and I’m wanting to transition from EBF to formula. I’ve contemplated expressing and bottle feeding but for my own wellbeing and mine and baby’s life I think formula will be the best thing for us.

Does anyone have any advice or experience on how to do this transition? My main concern is I feed on demand currently, so baby could feed anywhere between 5-30 minutes at a time and this could be 8-15 times in a 24hour period. How do I go about transitioning with this in mind? Will baby naturally be more full on formula so there will be less ‘ad hoc’ little feeds?

Thank you!!

baby sleeping on their side

My baby is 3.5 months and when i put her in the crib she is on her back.. eventually she moves around and ends up sleeping on her side. Is this something normal? Should i be concerned because dr google is telling me it increases the risk of suffocation and SIDS and now i’m freaked out.

Baby milestones

When your little one started holding/lifting his head by itself?🥰
Mine is 11 weeks and not a fan of tummy time but he usually holds it when I hold him. Today for the first time he actually lifted his head on tummy time and he didn’t started crying as soon as he landed on his tummy 🥹