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Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 2 years ( we are both 22 years old ) and we have a 3 month old after I gave birth we used to have sex all the time after the 6 week mark but my hormones have been all over the place i don’t want to be touched or to have sex I don’t have a sex drive anymore it’s been nearly a month since we’ve had sex I’ve told him Nicely that I’m just too over simulated to be touched or have sex I’m so tired , we also have a nearly 3 year old ( which is his step daughter ) but recently he’s been making me feel a certain way he makes comments like ‘ I pay for everything least you could do is have sex with me ‘ or like imma shit gf for not having sex with him he saying I make him feel like he has to beg to have sex , I never asked him to beg!!! I told him I’m just not in the mood to have sex I’m too tired or my hormones are just making me not want to be touched !! I also have 2 kids that cling on to me for dear life lol , also the way he speaks to me sometimes like he’s nasty last thing I want to do is have sex with him !!! Rant over sorry girls is this me falling out of love with him with how he speaks to me or is it actually my hormones ??? xx

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He has no right to pressure you into sex and you have every right to wanna feel the need to not have sex and she has a point in wanting to just fill you but he shouldn’t say that you’re a bad girlfriend but if you’re not feeling it you’re not feeling it and maybe you are falling out of love with him. Maybe it’s time to figure out your priorities.

WHEN SEX IS MORE IMPORTANT THAT YOUR PARTNERS FEELINGS THAT'S DISTURBING HE HAS NO RIGHT

I would break up with him 100% I lost my sex drive completely and my daughters 8 months old I never really got it back every now and then I'll drink a little bit and it'll get me in the mood and we'll have fun but In no circumstance should you feel pressured or bad about not having sex me and man will go about a week- 2 weeks without it now we just are really busy but yeah girl that's a big red flag

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