Is there any getting over it?

Me and my bf dont argue
But we bicker about 1 issue quite abit..
He doesn't see any harm in checking other people out, out and about and although he thinks hes discreet hes not
I dont agree with it, i didnt used to care before my partner but when i got pregnant i started getting very self conscious, and its only gotten worse since, everytime he looks elsewhere it makes me feel so ugly and worthless, like im not enough for him. He knows it all as ive said we disagree about it alot im just not sure if its something i can get over. I now have dreams of him cheating quite often which takes a different kind if toll. I feel so unattractive. I honestly feel less attracted to him too, he knows how if affects me but instead of helping me feel more secure in our relationship he keeps up his silliness.
It came up again last week, it was my oldests bday, we took him out to a zoo with his dad and while we were all sitting down at a table both my ex and boyfriend checked out the same person, I've honestly never been so embarrassed.
He knows it makes me feel like hes stuck with me because i got knocked up, he just doesnt care

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Listen, a good man cares. My husband thinks of averting his eyes as an act of discipline that keeps his mind from other devious behaviors like watching porn, and it didn't take much convincing on that front because.. God convinced him. We went to the gym 3 times a week for a season - this season of his change in particular - and I always felt a little insecure inherently, even though I too was in athleisure and looked hot, not even pregnant yet, but my husband? Averting his eyes. Don't think I've ever seen someone attractive and caught him looking, even when I expect to find that. He feels much, much better, more in control, and disciplined. So there's a personal benefit too.

That your ex and your boyfriend both exhibited this behavior does say the common denominator is what you're willing to endure/type of guy you choose. Have you talked to him about your dreams? Not ogling people is such a small sacrifice for your mental health.

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