Incredibly sexually frustrated.. rant

So the past several weeks I've had a really hard time finishing during sex, ill get close then be hit with a very painful contraction making it so I don't finish, and if I try to finish after the contraction passes I just get hit with another more painful one, again making me not finish. I use to love having sex with my hubby but now every time im horny or he's horny I just get sad because I know I either have to have a lot of physical pain to finish or I don't get to. Last night I initiated sex but after the third time of trying to finish I ended up just laying on my husband crying while he tried his best to comfort me. Im so sick of it, I want this kid out of me already and I want to be able to enjoy sleeping with my hubby again and not cry after 😭😭😭

(Also just to clarify, I dont just want him out so I can enjoy sex again. Im very excited to meet him, and we love him very much already. I don't want anyone taking what I said the wrong way lol)

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I can definitely see how frustrating that can be. I am sure you have tried, but have you tried different positions, or ones that normally wouldn't work? Or maybe include a toy? Right now i feel me leaning over the bed and husband behind is not too bad. We tries reverse cowgirl the other day and that usually doesn't do it for me but it felt pretty good.

we have tried different positions, none that we've tried seem to work. We haven't tried a toy, but we also don't have any

Highly recommend the Womanizer, its expensive but they have smaller ones. It also depends if you are a clitoral climaxer or more a g-spot/internal climaxer. I feel for me its about the angle of the position with my husband.

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