Who else is mentally checked out?

Tell us the reasons why you’re mentally checked out and what you wish he would do to change.

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Me... i wish he'd honestly just see how much im struggling on the inside. I feel like im drowning i am with our kids all day and I just want a break sometimes other than taking a shower.. i wish he'd ask me what I need or notice when I dont seem like myself. We've known each for over 5 years and still don't notice when something is bothering me..

I LEGIT TOLD HIM I'M 2MONTHS PP AND I FEEL LIKE IN DYING INSIDE HE DIDN'T CARE NOT ONE BIT TBH I'M DONE TRYING

I'm getting there. I feel like we have a lot going on in our place right now and I'm about to be in my 3rd trimester next month and all this man is worried about is how dry his dick is even though we have sex every day instead of making sure we're straight with a roof over our head and doing things that we both enjoy without feeling the need to bring someone else in to this.

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Escape plan…

I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with my second baby and have a 23 month old toddler. I had quite severe PNA when my first was born and found it really hard to adjust to motherhood as my village is quite far from me and my partner works long hours. My partner knew all my anxieties over becoming a working mum of 2 and recently went away to bury his grandmother and somehow had time to start an affair with someone he met out there. Mind you he has an easy life as is, comes home to a clean house/clothes, sleeping baby and food on the table. Our relationship has been under strain for the past few months but I never thought he’d stoop so low to do this to me. But hey such is life, we are from the UK and I need advice on how to secretly move my money from our joint accounts while secretly saving money to leave because I’ll be damned if I stay with someone I don’t trust and who doesn’t love me.

Kids are gone and I miss them

I can't believe I'm even writing this. I am a stay at home mom to 4 kids ages 1,5,8,9 and my mother in law has all 4 of the kiddos and they are staying the night and my husband drives trucks so he's on the road. I haven't had a break like this in almost a year I should be excited right? Yet I have these feeling in my chest like I miss my kids 🥺 I just want to drink my wine eat my turkey sandwich and watch love Island with no care in the world but this feeling is heavy. What should I do? I just got out of the shower thought that might help but nope

Bestie where u at???

Trying to make mom friends and it be hard out here. If you like sarcasm, honesty, and fierce loyalty hit me up. I’m a tad bit goofy, love a good Adam Sandler movie, and covered in tattoos so if that doesn’t scare ya away please dm me. I have a 3yr old boy and an 1.5yr old girl. My son is on the spectrum, we have no outside help, so I need some form of village and I’m determined to build on myself. I’m shy at first but I’ll do my best to respond and not be boring af. Just trying to find moms who are trying to be better for themselves and there kids but also knows how to kick back and have a good time💛✨💛

Tomorrow I’m ordering Chinese takeout.i haven’t eaten out in about 6 months,we have been trying to eat only homemade and it wasn’t hard .Ordering out used to be nothing but I’m so excited it feels really worth it.

Do you eat out much?

Who wants part of this hectic group chat?

Because why the hell not, RIGHT?!

Partner

How do you all feel if you’re with your partner and he looks at another woman in-front of you ?? And you can clearly tell he’s looking at their ass or chest? And it’s not just an instinct reaction because he doesn’t do it with all woman just certain ones. It hurts my feelings so bad it makes me feel so insecure and if I bring it up he gets mad.