I want to know as a woman, what do you think is your primary duty to your husband or partner?
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Look after my/ his children

probably support and reassurance, generally. but for me its, taking care of the babies, keeping work clothes in a laundry loop (hes blue collar so its rough out there😅) and making sure i always know whats for dinner

Nothing. Absolutely nothing. He is an adult he requires nothing from me. If he cant cope without me then he has failed as a human being quiet frankly.
My duty as a women is to myself and since becoming mother to my child.

We have the same core duty to each other and that is to love and respect each other. All actions we do stem from that core concept. It will be different for every family.

I would say we both have duty to provide emotional support and partnership to each other. But that’s it

Be companions to each, treat each other with respect, help each other, be each other's protectors Be each other's supporters, raise children together. Do all of the duties together. I understand sometimes one will have to do more then the other. Like how i work part-time,but am the one with our child more cause he works more days then me, then I expect him to take care of me. For there will be days I'll forget to take care of me because of all the duties been placed on me. If he can't take care of me then he is no husband and a selfish person. Am no robot. I hear a lot say is a wife duty to take care of her family and husband, well i expect the same treatment if I don't get it then is not worth my time staying. But am very blessed that I have a husband who understands is our duty to take care of each other

Nothing. We are just two people who have decided to do life as a team, so we both support each other the best we can.

I love my partner and he provides for us so I do his laundry, cook for him and other things he needs to be taken care of 🥰 I do it out of love and don’t see it as a chore
I think it depends on how you and your partner are.
He also cleans, takes care of our child, takes care of me :)) idk balance?

I actually was not sure if i was going to get married, I actually broke up with a lot of guys cause I saw no future with them and they were showing qualities that I did not want in a partner. I literally had a list and I had list cause I was so worried of marrying the wrong person. Grew up around a lot of adults that were toxic in thier relationships. I vowed not to fall in a toxic relationship. But I knew I wanted a companion, when I meet my husband I saw a future and I saw qualities that I knew i wanted in a man. I think women marry cause like I said a companion, a companion to face the world, someone to lean on, someone to grow old with.