13 month old won’t settle for husband

When my daughter wakes, if my husband goes in to try settle her she absolutely screams
He’s a very present dad and she loves him to bits through the day but she wants me every single time through the night. I wouldn’t mind but I’m only getting about 6 hours of fragmented broken sleep and I’m absolutely exhausted from it, it’s been going on for a couple months now.
She’s at the point that she doesn’t need milk through the night anymore so we’ve been offering her water (she’s BF so wants boob to settle), we’ve also tried something that smells like me and introducing a comforter but she launches it onto the floor.
Has anyone else had this and what did you do?

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