Lonely

I am honestly about to give up on making friends. I talk to people. We talk for a few days and then they just ghost me. Or we actually meet up, and then they ghost me right after!
Motherhood and military spouse is already hard enough, but this is honestly depressing! Being at home 24/7 with NOBODY to talk to. Nobody to hang out with. Nobody to vent to. I’m hitting a big low in my life!

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How do we afford to live?

The ones with a mortgage and not struggling..how do we do this?
I am working full time from home, take care of my son at the same time so we have no nursery costs. My husband works full time with a decent wage.. but we still exist and don’t live. So hard to save up. All the wages goes to bills. Honestly don’t remember the last time I went to do my nails for example. Our mortgage payments are absolutely ridiculous because we had a remortgage when interest rates were so high. And then i look at some people having holidays left right and centre😂 am I missing something in life? Are we doing some side quests? Please share because if I can’t even save a 100 quid what’s the actual point 😂

9 months and alone need advice

I have been with this older man for about 11 months when i got pregnant basically he couldn’t get a job the whole time. Now a year since his last full time job, he was got offered a job that’s 30 days + contract around US and 30 days off.

He left at 6 months and at 8-9 months. He knows i have no family around and now is threatening to send our text to his other 2 bms. Texts where i am saying for his lack of care for updates on how we’ve been the last few week i wondered how those other 2 women went through it. These women for context have fought each other and treat the children of the other terribly so he’s told me.

He’s accused me of sleeping with my adoptive dad and will not stop. The only boyfriend my dad has ever allowed himself to meet btw. Again 9 months with no support and a man willing to stay away and threaten me with his family. What should I do!???!

How often do you see parents after having baby

Hi everyone how often do you see your mum/dad for help with your baby whether it’s them coming to you or you going to theirs. I feel like I’m constantly wanting to be around my mum for emotional support and so that I’m not lonely I currently have an almost 4 month old but my mum said she will only come and visit me once a week now and I’m finding that hard! She lives an hour away from me. Maybe I’m just not dealing with things very well.

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Am I overreacting???

So I've just had another argument with my partner. We've been together for 7 years and have a 5 year old son and I'm due in 4 weeks. I've just found out he's been slagging me off to his work mates and saying I won't let him go out with them. For context I found out he was cheating on me 2 weeks before I knew I was pregnant. I suffer with depression and anxiety anyway and have been having counselling for it, this tipped me. We agreed to try again but there have been times when he's said he wished he was still cheating on me so he'd have a reason to deal with my attitude to now. I've not said no he can't go out but have asked if he could give me some notice and where he'll be as I'm high risk pregnancy and had a haematoma burst at 7 weeks, which we didn't know what it was at the time and even the nurse at work thought I was miscarrying. I am clingy and need reassurance at the moment and I thought he understood. The fact that he's been bad mouthing me with no context or admission as to why I'm like this makes me feel he blames me and doesn't understand at all. Sorry for the long post. Just very confused and need some advice. Thanks.

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