I just can't do this any more

I feel really concerned that my baby isn't born yet (34w) and I'm wondering every few days whether I should have ever tried to have kids. My whole body hurts and is uncomfortable, so much to do still after moving house 2 months ago, and i can only get 3-4 sleep a night for the past 2 months. I was about to fall asleep and baby started kicking so hard, I got annoyed and wished he wasn't kicking so I can fall asleep. Who would want the baby to not kick! That would be such a bad sign. I really dont know what will I do when he is actually born and freaking out regularly about this and about my sleep 😴😭😭😭

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She’s always trying to throw shade at me by calling me a big back but I laugh bc if all you can do is try to make fun of my appearance while I’m 12 months postpartum, than I’m winning. She can’t say I’m a bad mom but I sure as shit can scream that about her at the top of my lungs. She is bipolar, always high, speeds with her 4 children in the car, doesn’t bathe them, according to my SD she cannot cook, has her kids failing and missing school and is a terrible person. But sure I’ll be a big back while she walks around looking like a 12 year old boy and the aliens from men in black.

So tired of seeing the subs and being the bigger person to keep my mouth shut.

10 month health visitor review

Anyone else feel deflated after their 10 month review? I came out my appointment sobbing, they make you feel like you’re a terrible mum.
My little boy is measuring overweight for his age he is a big boy I knew that was going to be mentioned, however she then proceeds to tell me to water his formula down so he doesn’t like it so we can cut down how much he is having 😳 he does have meals and snacks throughout the day but loves his milk! Also he wasn’t babbling as much in the appointment and she mentioned he has a speech and language delay and could be autistic 🙄 by the end of the appointment she retracted what she said as he started shouting “dadadada”. She also told me to take his dummy away from him at night time as this will be affect his speech but this is the only time he has it and he doesn’t speak when he’s asleep 🙄😂 how can they “know” all this at 10.5 months old. All babies develop in their own time. I’m now worried. Has anyone else had a similar experience? ☹️

Dummy or no Dummy

I’m considering a dummy to help my 6 week old sleep through the night. He currently wakes 3-4 times in the night (not always for a feed as can be 1 hour post feed). I’m interested in other people’s experience with a dummy and whether it helped their little ones sleep through the night. I’ve heard good things but also worry if it’ll cause more wake ups if it falls out and he wants it back and needs us to put it back.

Would welcome any advice on dummy usage and/or sleeping for longer stretches

8 week immunisations

My baby has his 8 week immunisations tomorrow, we have the calpol at the ready and a free afternoon for plenty of cuddles. Any other advice would be truly appreciated.

What would you do?

What would you do if your toddler (2.8) was having a huge tantrum and kicking and screaming over getting their nappy changed and you had already tried the gentle approach? I spent ages before being calm and in the end I had to just put it on him regardless of crying and hold him down a little. Am I in the wrong for this because according to my mum, this is not ok 😬😂 and if not, I would love to know what the right thing to do is here….

Epidural

Hey all! I had my little girl 10 weeks ago. I ended up having the epidural after already having a long labour, I was exhausted in the end, I made a decision to have it.
I am still having a bad lower back and some numbness in my left knee. Has any else experienced this.

Maybe doesn’t help, I had emergency forceps delivery, so I had to be numbed on top of the epidural I was pumping into myself also.