Advice

So my husband left me a couple months ago and I found out before he even left me he was sleeping over at his female co workers house (they're both military and he's technically her boss) I have spoke to both of them and they're adamant hes been sleeping in the sofa, he's also lied about being at hers so my question is, what do you think?

in our community

HELPPP

my sex life consists of him saying “should we have sex now?”, then we kiss for maybe 30 secs before he wants me to give him head or ride him. that lasts 3 mins max and its over, i pretend to finish because at this point its almost awkward. we’ve been together 2 years but sex life changed so much after baby its not even funnyyy.

his drive is lower than mine too, so this is a couple mins every 3ish days when i would be every day if i could. so i look forward to nothing lol help

Sec

Whats a normal amount of times to have sex with your partner ?

Am I wrong?

I’m 4 months pregnant. We went out to watch the game with his friends and he and I had plan at the end of the night to tell my parents about the pregnancy (don’t question this lol). He knew we had plans about this for the longest time.. he keeps pushing it and it’s so damn annoying. Then he got so drunk that day so I got annoyed. But then he got angry at me because I was annoyed at how he was drinking when he knew we had plans and I’m not going to let my bf talk to my
Parents while he’s drunk. Like no respect whatsoever. Then we got into a huge fight where he called me: “a fucking moron, a fucking bitch, cunt, a walking fucking idiot, and so on” the next day he explained why he understands I got disappointed but then went on about how he feels disappointed.. did not apologize for the way he spoke to me. I was super anxious, as we all know pregnancy is hard, the mood swings and emotions takes the best out of you. He yells and screams on the phone and I should’ve just left him. But I constantly called him because I was angry and wanted to solve things but he was a total prick about everything. Anyways he texted me this morning saying this, isn’t this just fucked up. Or am I wrong?

I will not clean his fucking place that’s for sure. Like wtf. I’m not your maid. You don’t treat me like a partner and you need this. I’m already going to be taking care of the kids so he’s just trying to be a jerk.

Embarrassed

FTM and post partum. I have only ever used tampons so unsure of how to dispose of pads. I am wrapping them in toilet roll & then the cover of the next pad. However, I feel like my bathroom just stinks. I can't take them to the outside bin everytime I change my pad cos I have a baby. I empty the bin at the end of each day.

any tips?