Sex and Relationships with Railey Molinario

Ugh Men!!!

I've been with my husband for 8 years this year (married last year) he's great Iove him but our sex life frustrates me no end!!!

It's always his way what he wants what suits him it's never and I mean never about me I don't orgasm ever I don't ever have any desire to have sex except for when I'm ovulating (mother nature 🥴) but I do it as it's part of a relationship however, the more I think about it the more I have no desire to have sex is because he's a get in get out kinda guy no foreplay no touching bar grabbing my noobs a bit no missing he literally just wants sex and when he's done (which isn't long btw) he just rolls over and goes to sleep I feel used I feel like an object (we've talked about it plenty of times( and it's got so bad now I'm craving someone to just notice me and want me and want to make me happy because I just don't feel like I get that at all I almost want someone to want me so bad to make him jealous and realise I'm not just his sex on tap person and I deserve to feeloved wanted and enjoy sex too!

Dong really know what the point is to this other than to being as it's currently 1:40am I'm angry and cannot sleep despite being tired I just feel so let down and annoyed. Hoping by venting and typing some of this out I can finally get some sleep before having to just be mum all over again tomorrow ugh 😔

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Lustful husband

Advice welcomed please. I am approaching 9 years with my husband. We have two children together, who are both under 3 years old. I’ve dealt with him emotionally cheating twice, pre marriage and pre babies, and like a dummy I had forgiven him. When I would find out, he would tell me how terrible he felt and how he regretted everything and would work hard to gain my trust again. BTW I’ve constantly explained to him throughout our whole relationship that his lustful actions of watching corn and looking up instagram baddies felt disrespectful to me. After we got married and had kids, he convinced me that none of that was going to happen anymore and I believed him because he started to turn more to God and his phone was generally clean when I would check. Sometimes I seen he would slip up and look up big 🍑 latinas, but forgave him since he would show remorse. 2 days ago, I seen he searched “so cal swingers” on Reddit website where it showed many inappropriate pics and couples looking for another male in their relationship. Mind you, I’m not into that. His excuses for his past actions was that he was “young and dumb”, his excuse now is that it’s my fault because I don’t put up enough. We do it once a week, of course more would be great but our 2 kids are so clingy. We agreed we would just coparent now that the damages in our relationship seem irreversible. Are there any men out there that are not lustful at all?? Hearing other women’s experiences, all men are the same. If all men are the same I would just rather stick with the one I got or just be single. I’m afraid to contact family or friends about this because knowing the dummy I am, I would want to repair for the sake of my own family. As a stay at home mom, I don’t have any of my own income to get my own place. Not sure what to do.

Normal toddler behavior?

My 18 month old is pretty rambunctious! She prefers to run, climb and play rather than sit still in a circle. We’ve been to a few indoor toddler play classes, and she doesn’t spend as much time watching the teacher as some other little ones do. She likes to be on the move.

I’m thinking about taking her to a library class in the morning but I’m nervous she’ll be more interested in playing with whatever’s available and getting into everything than listening to the story. I don’t know if I should feel embarrassed by her behavior, like I’m doing something wrong?

Is this normal? At what age do they start to follow instructions more consistently? I’m a first time mom. 😅

30 hours free childcare - partner earns almost over the threshold

Does anyone have experience with HMRC calling to talk about this? My partner works on commission and may earn over the threshold to be entitled to it this year. I don’t know what to expect from the phone call.
Are they helpful? Or are they doing their best to take the childcare hours away from us??

Possible to teeth at 2 months?

My little boy has recently turned two months old. He has not long discovered his hands and sucks them and his thumb to self soothe.

However, this week he has been drooling a lot and has been more irritable and fussy in general sometimes. Also, I’m not sure if it’s relevant but I EBF and is really fussy on the boob at times. I am just curious if he could be teething at this age. I have given him infant calpol just in case he is in any pain. His cheeks are a little red, temperature is fine and I have checked his gums and they appear to be fine.

His sleep at night is completely fine and he naps throughout the day. We don’t have a routine as such because he still is so young, but we just follow his cues.

Maybe he is going through a developmental milestone.

Has anyone else experienced this?

Pee free carpet

How are we keeping our carpets clean when potty training?

Husband is p*ssing me off!!!

It started off with him telling me I was acting "silly", code for stupid/ridiculous, when I said baby dropped, which means I will be going into labor sooner than we thought. All I can think, is you being for real right now?! You have a baby and I'll tell you there's no need to fill nervous.

Then he starts coming up with all these different scenarios that could happen, and I need to come up with solutions for our other children. I was fine at this point of going into labor sooner, but nooo! Ffs dude just chill the hell out and stop overthinking everything. The kids will be fine with our family member. Like come on, I have to get him to stress less so I can be at peace... again!

It's just so annoying the over-preparedness, because it's like that for every aspect of our life. Well guess what it takes the enjoyment out of life sometimes because, I have to prepare for cases that are the worst