I was 3 months postpartum battling an autoimmune disease I did not know I had back then, when my husband one night less than 3 foots from me was masturbating over half naked women on Instagram (our baby was sleeping right beside him and I was on a sofa in the living room) he did not know that I saw him. I tried to please him two days prior that although my episiotomy was not even fully healed. Is that considered cheating ?
PS: I already told him year before that to me watching adult content (I found a video of a woman getting naked on his phone ) while hiding is same as cheating.
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Um his baby was next to him sleeping...I don't care if you consider this cheating I'm focused on him masturbating with his kid sleeping next to him, HUGE ICK!!!...I do consider it cheating though just for the record. Anything that they are doing in secret involving that type of content and they know you won't like it is considered cheating. It's called emotional cheating. He is getting off to a woman that are not you. Putting unrealistic expectations on you and if it continues he will treat you as an object not as his loving wife. Also he may not want to continue because excess masterbation to stuff like that can lead to ED and Early Ejaculation...🤷🏻♀️😅

It really doesn't matter if he or anyone else thinks it's cheating. You explicitly told him that you think it is and he still did it anyway. That's a breach in trust and disrespectful to you.

Depends, for me no because I dont have a problem with porn. I have never watched it myself but my husband knows i dont really care as long as it doesnt interfere with us. I said definitely yes because for you, this matters to you and he knows this matters for you, so i would consider it cheating.
Also, what is up with people and doing sexual stuff next to literal children. This is the third post where a kid is present during a sexual act. Like couldnt he have given you the baby and jacked off in the bathroom or something. Just no thank you.