The pill

Hubby wants me to take the pill but I don't want to. 3 months post and my hormones feel like they are finally going back to normal. Last time I took it I was bleeding every few weeks. I don't need anymore weight gain. I'm already trying to lose baby weight . I said I'm just gonna track my cycle.. we'll be fine.

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I mean it’s really not up to him what u take…

I was very adamant that I wouldn’t be taking the pill. I have had chronic migraines for 15 years and I can’t take regulate birth control. I can only take non hormonal ones. I told my man the options he has are to wear condoms or to get a vasectomy.

It’s your body, your choice. If he doesn’t want the tracking cycle option, then give him one other one to choose from. And then he can decide between the two so he feels like he had some say in the decision.

I got a blood clot while on the pill, after I stopped it I felt soo good! Dont make him force you to take something that can be harmful to you

in our community

Is it odd for MIL to buy a father's day gift for my husband?

It was for his first father's day

Self care

I love a good Dominican salon. They’re so hospitable. I was offered coffee, corn on the cob, chicharon with bread and beer lol all while relaxing, listening to the grandmas gossip and getting my hair slayed.

& also complimented for looking too young to have a 13 year old. I was just winning all around.

He tried to make me feel better

But he made it ten times worse. I know he didn’t mean to. I am 6 months post partem from a c section. I have an overhang. I wasn’t happy with my body before and I’m sure as heck not happy with it now. I don’t even want to get on top during sex because of it. Last night after doing the deed (I keep my shirt on now) I was laying with my head on his belly and we were just having pillow talk. He put his arm around me and his hand landed on my belly and I pulled my shirt down and put my hand over his so he couldn’t “rub” my belly. He noticed right away and proceeded to tell me how much he loves me and.. “every fold” “crevice” “crack” “flap” anything I could think bad that I have he loves with every ounce of him. I adore him for trying to give me that reassurance but now all I can think is “wow he notices my c section over hang flap.” It made it ten times worse and idk what to even do atp.

Hopeless

I’m a mom of 2 years old and pregnant with second. I’m sad 😔 only thinking of not being able to do things I would love to. I want to travel. Go out. Have friends (I have none) I feel sad seeing my husband being able to go out with his friends. I have to ask him to take me even for groceries! When will I live life I want to 😢 is it early to have kids? Ohh I’m overwhelmed

Is watching half naked women online considered cheating

I was 3 months postpartum battling an autoimmune disease I did not know I had back then, when my husband one night less than 3 foots from me was masturbating over half naked women on Instagram (our baby was sleeping right beside him and I was on a sofa in the living room) he did not know that I saw him. I tried to please him two days prior that although my episiotomy was not even fully healed. Is that considered cheating ?

PS: I already told him year before that to me watching adult content (I found a video of a woman getting naked on his phone ) while hiding is same as cheating.

Segregation

I noticed this segregation on here. I'd like to know why do you white women not want to be friend anybody outside of your race?