if you could wish one of these into existence which would you choose? [realistic]

• BREASTFEEDING BENCHES: seats in useful locations around the town specifically for breastfeeding mums: parks, shopping centres, down the street etc. i’m imagining curved benches with carefully placed decorations like trees or flowers to give privacy without isolation. you could have a pair of them in a yin & yang shape with a curved short wall in between to talk to another mum on the bench behind you without looking in at each other. no one should feel self conscious but if you feel awkward breastfeeding in front of someone but feel bad ditching them to feed your baby for 20 minutes this could help (eg male family members). also takes away having to look for feeding rooms or faffing with covers.

• MATERNITY LEAVE DISCOUNT CARD: like a blue light card or student card but for people on maternity leave. retailers could opt in to give you like 10% off your food shop or whatever.

• HEALTH & SUPPORT VISITORS: when the health visitor midwives come they also bring a cleaner to help with whatever task you just can’t get around to yet, eg washing bottles, laundry, hoovering, lasting as long as the visit. single mums or mums without much of a village get twice as long. i think this could go such a long way for mental health.

• GENERAL VIRAL TESTS: like covid tests but for any virus, to identify whether someone is carrying any viral disease before they come near your baby. available from any retailer like the covid kits were/are. takes away the second guessing from having family who have been around someone sick holding your baby.

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Got these for my little one

I brought these for my one year old to get her off the bottles she was on

I did a lot of research on them, and a few people recommended them for her age

Just wanted to see what mums thought on here about them before I start using them

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Baths

When do you start to bath your baby everyday? Mine is 7 weeks old

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Agitated when breastfeeding

My 5 week old son is breastfed and expressed milk fed via bottle and normal is content on the breast but today out of nowhere he is really agitated and screams as if he isn’t getting any milk but I use a nipple shield and can see the milk is there. Any advice? I don’t want to have to give up breastfeeding 😢

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Burning candles?

I know we shouldn’t because it’s not good for adults but especially babies but I miss burning a candle in the evening and we have a rented house that smells musty no matter how much we deep clean everything and air out the house for hours everyday. Does anyone burn a soy candle downstairs in the evening with windows being open whilst baby is upstairs asleep or do you think it’s too much of a risk? Any advice /opinions would be greatly appreciated (my baby is 9 months btw)

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Antibiotic effect on breastmilk

I have been taking amoxicillin for a week now and my EBF baby has seemed to be coincidentally having GI issues? Larger spit ups, visibly and audibly uncomfortable, straining to poop/pas gas, lots of mucous in stool etc etc. he’s happy but also very uncomfortable. Anyone else have this issue?? Yesterday was my last day so I’m hoping he feels better soon. I feel so bad 😢

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How would you react - a bit annoyed at my partner

How would you react - a bit annoyed at my partner

Our LO is just over 2 years old.

Sadly I wasn’t in the room and my partner was in the room and he didn’t see what happened. I’m so annoyed at that. It’s bad enough our toddler fell off the sofa but I’m so annoyed he wasn’t watching to see what happened 😣

Apparently the Toddler was on the sofa and fell off 😔

I heard the impact of the fall from the bedroom and a cry straight after from what I could tell

Toddler was acting normal then and now but when discovered toddler was face up on the floor crying But clutching cheek from inside mouth. At first I thought toddler may have had a self inflicted bite.

This is what their face looks like today.

So all in all toddler seems fine. Although the whole situation is still giving me anxiety.

I mean, one thing that's really, annoying me is the fact that my partner was like so relaxed and was like oh it will be fine, there will be more knocks and worse. But it just pissed me off because I was thinking how does this not worry you?

I just feel like I was so much more worried about this than my partner was/is.

My partner is just so laid back about it. It's just me doing the research, checking, worrying, and wondering if toddler is okay. Partner was just watching football.

Like am I unreasonable?

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