What is more torturous at night?

I've got one of each but I think I'd prefer 1. My daughter who is now 3 would wake up most of the time twice a night but took up to 2/2.5 hrs to go back down. She sleeps through now but she wants you in the room with her until she sleeps. She not bad with her naps when she was smaller.
My son who is now 10 months would literally wake up every hour maybe 2 but he would go down a lot easier than her. He doesn't nap so much in the day.
My cousin's little one would sleep through 6 till 6 at 3 months old and yep I thought you can shove your 12 hours up your ars 🤣

They are just as bad as each other 🥴

I think they’re both awful. I just wanna sleep 🥲. Last night my 6 week old only woke once but was awake for 4 hours screaming. I bounced on the ball for two hours and paced the house with him in the carrier but nothing settled him. I think he just passed out from exhaustion after 4 hours. So after my traumatic experience last night I’d say 1 is worse.

I can handle being woken up several times and then falling back asleep WAY more easily than the days where I’d be awake for 1 hour at a time per night feeding.

My kiddo is number 2 but occasionally will do no 1 and honestly 1 is so so much worse

I coped better when she was waking hourly than when she was having split nights and staying up just as I was falling asleep. That time was torture.