My health visitor told me I look tired, I often don’t get to sleep until 1am (newborn & toddler) then wake 3ish,6ish and I’m officially up all day with my toddler from 7am sometimes earlier. So obviously I am very tired. However when I explained he went “should’ve said I would’ve came over to give you a few hours sleep” was he taking the piss out of me? 🤣🙈
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I would say it’s unprofessional comment on their behalf, newborn and toddler is hard work ( I am in the same boat) and tiredness unfortunately is the side effect

Having a newborn and a toddler is hardwork. And definitely more tiring second time round compared to the first.
If my health visitor said that to me, I would go okay can you come round tomorrow? Just to see what they do.

Tell him to sod off and try it himself then!