Hot take

Laws for adoption vary place to place. So if I wouldn’t be able to adopt where I live should I just move somewhere where I do meet the requirements and conceive there?
Or is there a specific place’s laws that you think should be the standard everywhere and for everyone? If so whose laws would that be?

You mean a “Classist take”, not a hot take lol.

I wouldn’t engage in the private adoption industry or the paid surrogacy industry purely from a moral standpoint. I would consider fostering and then adopting out of foster care if there’s no chance of reunification. Being willing to pay for the baby of some underprivileged woman is hardly a mark of nobility and worthiness of becoming a parent. Not trying to shit on all adopters because I know all situations are different but yeah this is a bad take

I wouldn't exist if that were the case. I do understand what you are saying though. Adults should do better for their children.

Me and my husband were foster parents and tried to adopt through foster care before we had a biological child. We were able to pass background and medical checks but can't afford a private adoption. Its a long expensive process