Intimacy with partner

We are first time parents to an 8 month old. I’ve had bad PPD and complications with my cesarean so intimacy has been limited. My partner has been fine about it- never pressures me or anything but the other night our baby fell asleep on the sofa and we were watching a film. He tried to initiate but with the baby there - albeit asleep it just felt weird.

I want that part of our lives back but I don’t know how we can with the baby always there. We don’t have much support around us to leave him with. How does everyone else manage it?

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Best weaning apps?

Hi all,

Looking for weaning app recommendations please?

I’m usually a book girly but reading time is limited with LO.

Looking for fun recipes and apps that include tips for baby led and spoon fed weaning!

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hey mummas 💕money related

how are we affording to be stay at home mums? my fiance works full time and has a decent salary which realistically should cover everything but in this economy it does not but im so against my baby being raised by strangers i couldnt handle it personally no shade to anyone that does! so how do we make
momey guys i cant seem to find a weekend job or evening job at the moment but thats my only thought for now we get benifits for baby and some universal credit but not enough lemme know girls!

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Just because you ain’t like my response doesn’t mean post misinformation

Not a cheater my husband and I are very open and communicative, don’t need to say more or prove more 🤣 your 25 please act 25, I’m 21, you posting gives high school, and if you mad I didn’t reply to you after girl just say that no need to post about me love

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Sexless

Anyone else not having sex with their partner after having a baby? Our baby is nearly 6 months and I think we’ve literally done it about 3 times since baby was born …

I literally say about it all the time and he either ignores and changes the conversation or will agree and when it comes to it has an excuse. Starting to get really fed up. I know it is selfish but I also have needs…

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Rant!

Why is it that I see so much hate on this app granted most of it is loving a supportive but you get the odd one that is being hateful and disrespectful and this is an app for support and advice not hate if u don’t agree with something you see either say it nicely or not at all! I also did a post a while ago on sleep training asking for advice on what to do and stuff but the hole comment section was vile I just think this is a place where we should come together not tear each other down!

Is it just me or are there other people seeing this too ? ❤️

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