Husband infidelity
When I was 5 month pregnant with third kid I found out that my husband was cheating on me after being 13 years in marriage. To tell that it shaken me is not enough. All my life just crushed in my head, all what I was working towards is crushed. When I confronted him with this he just told me that it was for fun. When I read their chat - I found out that he was going out with that girl for half a year (so basically from the moment I got pregnant ). Based on chat I can tell that they had sex, boowjobs (in my car, as he was using it to go out) , she send him all sorts of nudes and video where she masturbates, he talked to her during day, he went with her during lunch time to have a lunch.
After so many discussions and fights I have decided to stay with him, as we have 3 kids together and he is indeed a great father and he was very supportive to me in general. That it is why this infidelity was such a shocker for me..
Today I have delivered our baby girl and she is wonderful, he loves her, and looking after her, he was with me in the hospital all the time, and look after the other two kids while I was with baby jaundice in the hospital. So I am trying to move on with my life.
But sometimes all memories are coming back of what he did and I am becoming very sad and depressed.
One of the most devastating parts for me today is that how that women looks - she is very skinny girl , when me I am not. This has shaken my confidence too much, and now I always thinking that I am not good enough, that I need to loose weight and work on myself even more than I did before.
I do not understand how to move on, I do not want to explain this to him, I do not want to know that I feel so uncomfortable, I do not want him to know that, so he will not start think about that girl again! Or should I talk to him? What should I do?
Bestie needed
Hey all 🥹
I’m 15 weeks pregnant for the first time and I don’t really have any friends… I’d love to meet up with people, grab a coffee, nights out (once I can 😂), shopping trips, day trips, etc
Someone who I can text with no judgement, go to for advice and give advice to. A sister I haven’t met yet.
I don’t need a huge friendship group, but meeting others I feel would make my new journey even more positive 🫶🏼 I live in Nottinghamshire 🫶🏼
