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Heyy guys Why am I embarrassed to tell my husband I’m using Penut “tinder for mums”?
One reason is, he had met 4 of my friends (2 of which are mums) I believe he may think why am I looking for more friends as my friends should be pulling through?
Awkward 😂

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Don’t say tinder for mums. 🤣🤣🤣That’s the problem. Makes it sound uno 😉

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Mummy's community lol

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As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realise most people struggle making new friends, especially mums, so there’s no shame in it.

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i need a bestieeeeee

I just want one best friend.

Not someone who’s only around when it’s convenient or someone I have to question all the time. I want the kind of friendship where we become family. The kind where one day I can honestly call you my sister.

A little about me—I’m 20 years old and a stay-at-home mom to my beautiful daughter, Amara. She’s my whole world. I have a huge heart, and sometimes I care a little too much. I’m loyal, I love hard, and I’ll always be there for the people I care about. I’ve been through a lot, so it takes me a little while to fully trust people, but once I do, you’ve got me for life.

I love Stitch, Hello Kitty, arts and crafts, being outside, deep conversations, late-night drives, and making memories with the people I love. I can be shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, you’ll probably have a hard time getting me to stop talking.

I don’t want a huge friend group. I just want one genuine person who stays. Someone who checks in, laughs with me, cries with me, hypes me up, lets me vent, and never makes me feel like I’m too much. I want the kind of friendship where we choose each other every single day.

If you’re looking for that too, maybe we can become the sisters we never had. 🤍

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Husband infidelity

When I was 5 month pregnant with third kid I found out that my husband was cheating on me after being 13 years in marriage. To tell that it shaken me is not enough. All my life just crushed in my head, all what I was working towards is crushed. When I confronted him with this he just told me that it was for fun. When I read their chat - I found out that he was going out with that girl for half a year (so basically from the moment I got pregnant ). Based on chat I can tell that they had sex, boowjobs (in my car, as he was using it to go out) , she send him all sorts of nudes and video where she masturbates, he talked to her during day, he went with her during lunch time to have a lunch.
After so many discussions and fights I have decided to stay with him, as we have 3 kids together and he is indeed a great father and he was very supportive to me in general. That it is why this infidelity was such a shocker for me..
Today I have delivered our baby girl and she is wonderful, he loves her, and looking after her, he was with me in the hospital all the time, and look after the other two kids while I was with baby jaundice in the hospital. So I am trying to move on with my life.
But sometimes all memories are coming back of what he did and I am becoming very sad and depressed.
One of the most devastating parts for me today is that how that women looks - she is very skinny girl , when me I am not. This has shaken my confidence too much, and now I always thinking that I am not good enough, that I need to loose weight and work on myself even more than I did before.
I do not understand how to move on, I do not want to explain this to him, I do not want to know that I feel so uncomfortable, I do not want him to know that, so he will not start think about that girl again! Or should I talk to him? What should I do?

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Postpartum loss of self?

Hi mamas. Wondering if anyone feels the same way..I had my daughter almost 8 months ago and she is the best thing that’s ever happened to me and my husband but I feel so lonely most days. He is gone for 12 hours a day, most days feel a bit repetitive but we get out of the house every single day so we don’t go stir crazy lol. I just do not feel like myself ever since having her. Anyone feel the same way? How do I overcome this?

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Bestie wya?!

I need a genuine bestie. Someone I can call a sister one day - chill, real, laid back, non judgmental, humble. Understanding. Putting myself out there and seeing if I find my person 🫶🏻 bestie wya?!?! 😫

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Feeling lonely, even around people.

I’m 27 weeks pregnant and this is my first pregnancy. I was informed about the emotional aspects of pregnancy, but I never imagined how lonely I would feel. With the father not being present, effectively making me a single mother, I do have my family and friends who can offer support. However, despite this, the loneliness persists, and I find myself crying frequently. I can be around a group of people laughing and talking, and suddenly, the loneliness hits me, causing me to burst into tears. Is this normal? Is there anyone else experiencing similar feelings?

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Penut 💕

Heyy guys Why am I embarrassed to tell my husband I’m using Penut “tinder for mums”?
One reason is, he had met 4 of my friends (2 of which are mums) I believe he may think why am I looking for more friends as my friends should be pulling through?
Awkward 😂

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