i need a bestieeeeee

I just want one best friend.

Not someone who’s only around when it’s convenient or someone I have to question all the time. I want the kind of friendship where we become family. The kind where one day I can honestly call you my sister.

A little about me—I’m 20 years old and a stay-at-home mom to my beautiful daughter, Amara. She’s my whole world. I have a huge heart, and sometimes I care a little too much. I’m loyal, I love hard, and I’ll always be there for the people I care about. I’ve been through a lot, so it takes me a little while to fully trust people, but once I do, you’ve got me for life.

I love Stitch, Hello Kitty, arts and crafts, being outside, deep conversations, late-night drives, and making memories with the people I love. I can be shy at first, but once I’m comfortable, you’ll probably have a hard time getting me to stop talking.

I don’t want a huge friend group. I just want one genuine person who stays. Someone who checks in, laughs with me, cries with me, hypes me up, lets me vent, and never makes me feel like I’m too much. I want the kind of friendship where we choose each other every single day.

If you’re looking for that too, maybe we can become the sisters we never had. 🤍

in our community

Anyone on here get pregnant with precum?

I started having sex with my husband with no protection and then he put a condom on mid way through.
I now think I might have been ovulating 🙈 I thought I’d already ovulated but the day after I got ovulation pains.
Has anyone got pregnant this way? (For the record I wouldn’t be planning a pregnancy right now as I have a 13 month old but equally wouldn’t be devastated if it happened accidently)

Cheating…..

What would you do if you find out your husband is cheating on you while you were pregnant and postpartum and you have a child. He’s willing to change but trust is already broken…..

Tell me about your ideal friend hang out day. I'll go first.

So we meet up to go thrifting, the antique store and the farmers market to start with. Ice coffee in hand. Then we go out for lunch. Then we hit up color me mine to paint some mugs. Followed by a second hand book store and dinner. Finishing off with ice cream and a thriller or horror movie at my place.

18 days after C section, Vagina is red raw

So I had my c section 18 days ago & at the start of the week I noticed I had a UTI which was there from day 10 but it got worse so I’m on antibiotics for a week for that, however my vagina is red raw. All around my urethra and external vagina is red, it’s also uncomfortable. I had a midwife check this on Friday however before going I had applied a thrush cream externally which I’ve used tonight and checked and it’s making the skin go back to a normal pinky colour yet still with discomfort, so she would’ve seen this colour and only some redness which she said, just not the red raw before I apply cream…

What could be causing this? I have no tummy pain or fever etc

Parent loss and no village

Just a rant really but I’ve been really struggling since I’ve lost both of my parents, I lost my mum when I was 17 and my dad December 2025, I genuinely have never felt so lovely, I’m estranged from my family for personal reasons and to protect my mental health too so I only have my partners mum and sister, I just feel like I’ve been so lonely for so long, it really gets to me and I’m not sure how to deal with or express this to my partner as he doesn’t really understand.

I don’t really have any friends either as I get so overwhelmed and forget to check my phone and reply and they just don’t speak to me after that, I think I just need to scream you know.

I think I’m just missing my dad some extra this week as it gets closer to my birthday.

Anybody else ever feel somewhat similar to this?

Self care

Do you practice self care? If so, what do you do?