Cheating…..

I’m gonna tell you love it’s not worth it. Your constantly gonna be worrying and questioning everything he does it’s just gonna make everything worse for your mental health and affect your family dynamics

I personally wouldn’t be able to get past it, the trust would be gone, it’d be healthier for me and our kids if we were apart should that ever happen to me

From personal experience, I left. He ended up staying with her.

I think you need to focus on yourself and what you want to do and feel you can cope with and feels best for you and the kids. Everyone will have their opinions and what they did if they went through the same scenario but only you know your relationship, him and if his actions are matching his words. Relationships can heal from betrayal and don’t always go wrong again but it takes two people wanting to make it work and he needs to make you emotionally secure again. The main thing is you doing what’s best for you and the kids and your own mental wellbeing x

For me, once the trust is broken it’s a wrap. Trust & honesty is the foundation of a relationship imo. He did this at your most vulnerable time as well, says a lot about his character.

Join them or find someone who is just solely monogamous. I don’t have time for the jealousy or heartbreak. But that’s just me. I’m sorry you’re hurting girl 💝

Depends on how far the cheating went and if your willing to make things work for your child, if you know it will cause problems in your marriage and children’s lives then leave him

Same exact situation, I stayed and it destroyed me. Worst decision of my life.