Regretting nursery

Hi

My toddler is nearly two in sept and I have just put him in nursery he hasn’t started fully yet we’re still settling in it’s been three weeks and he cry’s in and off whilst there for a hour.

I’ve been thinking to pull him out until he’s a bit older 2.5/3 yrs as I feel bad for one and two I think he’s ok to be around home for a bit more as I’m not working and just had another four month old

Advice pls.

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