Does anyone else have experience with this? Our 8 year old is the most kind, sweet and gentle child you could meet. She has empathy beyond her years and not a mean bone in her body. As parents, this made our job easier until now.
How do we support her with navigating preteen drama, and give her the tools and resilience she needs to survive in the 'real world'?
I'm starting to feel like we've failed her as parents 😔
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You haven't failed and I don't think this is something you should try to change.
Pre teen is a while off anyway, but all children find a way to navigate through it themselves. Some fight, some are mouthy, some walk away. She will find a way to deal with problems that suits her personality and you just have to check in and make sure she's OK. She doesn't have to be unkind or ballsy to be resilient. Have faith in her.