Potty training

Scenario. Your adult daughter lives next door and has her office setup in your living room. She’s at your house alone everyday with her baby and toddler while she works. Toddler is now partially potty trained and still has accidents. Where the office is you have area rugs, no carpet, and nice couches. Naturally you’re worried about potty accidents.
Do you
A. Ask her to look into the toddler having full time care so he can stay somewhere not in your home until potty training is all done. (Costs money)
B. Ask her to put him in pull ups at your house. (Makes potty training regress)
C. Ask her what her plan is for accidents because you don’t want any messes to get missed or furniture ruined. (Might be hard to multitask)
D. Ask if you can help rearrange furniture, surely the 1-1/2 bedroom house they rent might fit an office if things are out in storage. (Limited space)
…I am the daughter and trying gage if my parents reaction is reasonable

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Feeling sad

Hi everyone, just wondered if I’m being sensitive here.

I absolutely love my 10 week old and every minute spent with him, I absolutely love motherhood and even the crying and screaming doesn’t stress me. For that reason I do 24/7 baby care and the times my partner has him - I want him back!

My partner has started getting angry at me when he gets home from work if I’ve not done his dinner, or done the recycling or other household chores. Tonight for example, I’d messaged him saying I’ve got a freezer meal out for him - when he got back he said he wasn’t hungry. Fine. Then proceeds to get angry because his dinner wasn’t on the table…confused. Apparently all I’ve done today was hug the baby and go to a cafe (true…but I also walked the dog, emptied the dishwasher, did washing, sterilised 10 bottles and fed and changed our baby 20 times!). He thinks I’m just lazing around the house. He says I should just let the baby cry while I do the chores. No.

He’s got angry at me several times now and I’m struggling to get dinner ready and do everything else with the baby. He said “our mums did it why can’t you”. Both our mums were stay at home parents so I guess he’s right.

How do you do it?! I just can’t seem to get everything done, I’m failing massively. I go back to work in June next year so have some time to work it out. I feel under such pressure to be a perfect housewife for my maternity leave, but I do think he’s being a bit unfair saying I do nothing. He wants me to do everything around the house so any tips welcome on how the hell I do that with a 10 week old and a massive dog.

Rant

Letting my grandmother move in with us was the worst decision ever. My husband works nights and is supposed to take our daughter when he wakes up in the morning so I can have a break for a couple hours but now every time he wakes up she finds something she needs him to do so I'm left taking care of a screaming child 24/7 all alone cause by the time he finishes what she needs it's time for him to go to work. I never get a break and it's making it impossible for me to enjoy being a mom cause I'm basically being a single parent while still being married. I'm exhausted and tired of being all alone

Do I have a right to be angry or am i over reacting?

Evening park trip with the kids and partner (4 kids 10 and under). The 3 year old is non verbal and a fear of dogs. My partner is about 10ft away in the van dorectly facing where we are and watching. A dog off a lead runs full speed towards us she is hysterical before the dog gets close. My son starts screaming i grab them all behind me at the sane time im pushing this dog away who keepc comimg back. At one point i had to swing my daughter by her arm quickly away to stop the dog touching her as he went for her. The man who owns the dog just slowky walked over n slowly got his dog, didnt seem to care and said absolutely nothing and then I look at my partner n say what the actual fuck? Why are you just sitting there? He said what do you want me to do. Both children who were crying and screaming are autistic too and one non verbal and no understanding. My non verbal child already struggles in social situations and jumpy this is now going to make her even more scared to be outside. The man could also see his dog running towards us a mile off n did nothing to try call his dog back or stop it.

Safety/trafficking/scouting

I had a situation at the park and I’m not sure if I’m overreacting
There was a 5 yr girl that migrated to me and my 1.5 yr old. we were playing in a pile of leafs. She had a camera around her and really tiny outfit that most adults wouldn’t wear. No judgement just hard not to notice. The girl sorta circled us then came and sat in the puddle of leafs we were in outside of park a bit of a distance but in eye sight of her mom.
After sitting with us for a short period of time playing with leafs, when we started walking away from park she stared taking pictures. Very close to his face. Maybe 5 to ten. Then a picture of his eyes and lips she said it out loud taking it. “Eyes and lips”
The Mom was foreign She was on her phone the whole time! Didn’t look up once for 20 mins she was with a 2 yr old on swings
they were leaving and I asked her what the time was stuttered and
appeared nervous now that I think back to it.
And i didn’t see if the left when they got in there car. so they could have easily followed me to see where I live.

Am I tripping or is that weird?
I thought this little girl is just being creative with camera then I started to think about it more and more and am becoming more and more bothered.

Sketchy?

My husband and I recently separated, and he made the choice to move out. I have no idea where he went for the first couple of days, but he almost immediately moved in in with a female friend I've never heard of who's also going through a divorce and just so happened to want or need a roommate.

The timing and convenience seems awfully suspicious and it makes me think he's been seeing her for awhile and might have been cheating.

Thoughts?

No fruit in a week

My 14 month old has always loved any fruit, even lemons, but this last week has refused all the fruit that has been offered him. I've tried all sorts of fruit. The only time he is eating is when I have put it in porridge or when I have made yoghurt. He is eating everything else as normal. Has anyone's little one been through something similar, or have you got any ideas of what I can do to entice him back to being a Fruit Bat 🤣