Updated in my life!!!

Sorry for lacking postint on here! Last month was my birthday and a lot have happened, my sister, her boyfriend and my nieces that haven’t seen in 10 years came surprise me and took me and my daughters to seafood boil restaurant, which I ate like 3 seafood boil last month, my kids is on summer break and they’re living their life by going to sleepovers, water parks and birthday parties, me and my man went to the A$AP Rocky concert and then the day I went to see Don Toliver concert….. a lot have happened

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Gender was wrong 🤣

Hey girls I had made a post about my gender scan I had private and I wasn’t convinced on gender well today I had my 20 weeks scan and gender was confirmed to be not what I was told was told girl at private and am actually having a baby boy 🥰🩵

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Baby clenched fists

My LO is 10 weeks today and since birth his fists have been clenched and when I try to play with him his arms are so stiff and his fists stay clenched. He waved his arms around himself they are not fully locked but they only move when he wants to move them. Is this ok? Or should I see an osteopath maybe?

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3rd degree tear…what to do now?

I had a 3rd degree tear with 6 litres of blood loss with my first. I have fully recovered. I’m pregnant with my second and terrified to give birth at my nearest hospital as the care has been atrocious. My neighbour knows someone who died last month giving birth there. I’m being told NOT to have a home birth but I’m sh** scared to give birth at this hospital. Anyone had a third degree tear then had a home birth?

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Positive back-to-back (occipito-posterior) stories

Ladies, I need to hear your positive stories please. Today is my due date and I've just had a scan and been told that baby is in a back-to-back position.

I have tried to look for positive birth stories but all I can find are horror ones about how bad the pain is!

My first baby was a lengthy 5 day induction followed by sepsis and an emergency section which took my body so long to recover from.

I feel a bit wounded that I don't think I will have a positive story to reflect back on.

I have been scheduled for a c section on Monday if baby isn't already here, but I'm now considering pulling it forward.

Please let me know your thoughts 💕

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Miscarriage 6

I need to hear that my lo will be ok as an only child because I don’t think this is going to work out for us 😢

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Sickness and diarrhoea in third trimester

Has anyone else had sickness, and diarrhoea during the third trimester? Im 36+5 went to bed last night feeling fine, woke up half way through the night being sick and was on the toilet for a while. Partner ate the same food as me all day yesterday and is feeling fine. Is this a sign of labour?

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