14 month old wake up

Anyone got any tips on how to get my 14 month old to sleep past half 5?🙈 he goes bed every night between 7-7:30 and will have 2x 1 hour naps throughout the day.
I would like to get ready for work without chasing my child in the morning🤣

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Can u push bedtime back an hour

My little girl was like that...pushed bedtime to between 8-9 and that did the trick. She'll still wake up around 3-4am, but that's just to have a drink of water and resettle.

I use the tommie tippie black out blind. Apparently there melatonin starts to reduce round that time so there in a light sleep. I also have the Vtech Hush and it’s ace. I set it to be a red light and brown noise and helps him settle if slightly wakes up. My little one is 9 months though I don’t win every day especially with this weather but using these two things have improved. I don’t believe in pushing bedtime to later as they end up ratty making a rubbish night sleep for them and you need time for yourself as well.

I’ve tried pushing it back and although it did work it just made him miserable because we have to be out the house early in the morning🙈
He has white noise and black out curtains so the room is dark, I’ve tried pushing the first nap back but it just seems like he’s an early riser😭

Most babies that age are only capable of around 10 hrs night sleep. So you would need to push bedtime back - it may be that it takes a week for him to adjust, so try push through the grumps for a few days and he should settle on the new routine 🤞

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