When I go into labor and delivery I don’t want any visitors to visit while we are at the hospital I want to wait I feel like the bonding time for us as parents happens the first moments of life while in the hospital on top of that it’s going be overwhelming so I want to wait till we are home without drs and nurses
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You are not in the wrong. I have the same feelings. This is my first but my husband's second. He wants everyone at the hospital, I want no one.

I did it for my third baby and we are doing it again for our 4th! Great decision. More intimate.

It’s my first and I have no family left, so I think I’ll have a close friend there with me but it’s totally up to you! Keep it intimant and private if that feels best for you and your husband ❤️

That works for us! I don't really want to see anyone right after birth especially cause I'm usually still in pain and uncomfortable!