4 am rant im disgusted

i take care of her all the time she’s 8 months old. he “works” from home i still do it all. the only thing he does is take her in the mornings but he used to not even do that for the longest time. and hes got me half awake the whole time because he loudly complains for 10 minutes before taking her downstairs. i cook i clean ive been exhausted going to doctors he knows this

she hasnt been sleeping good i gave her an amazing day with my family and been absolutely exhausted. her and i both for the first time ever napped 3 hours from 12-3 yesterday because we needed it. she’s been up from 2:30-3:45 with me ive been trying to get her to bed. he says “its because you guys slept” all mad. i ignore it. she falls asleep nursing because he never fucking helped me for months in the beginning so i had to do what i had to do. i slid her around to face me because shes crawling all over the bed OBVIOUSLY SAFELY i have such a happy healthy baby thanks to me. and he puts his hand around my wrist and throws my arm back. starts YELLING at me to not “whip her around” and when i tell him to be quiet so she doesnt get more woken up he keeps yelling shit. yhen says “come to daddy” and pulls her toward him. idk what i said probably something along the lines of i cant take this i go to walk out the room and he says for me to “leave tomorrow”
which he loves to say and i say he’s a little boy. he goes “i’ll spit on you”????? are you fucking kidding me? i say he’s trash (because him and his whole family are its disgusting) and go downstairs. gave him 10 mins to try to put her to bed now shes crying because shes hardly used to him. he cant do anything i cant believe he said that shit to me. i know i sound pissed but im venting on here because idk what else to do and dont feel like engaging with him

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Night wakes gone mad

My 7 month old is on wake 6 already tonight (9pm bedtime its currently 2am) l. She used to do 5-6 hour stretches,sometimes longer. 4 months she started stared doing less, and since 6 months, it's gone absolutely mad. She feeds most wakes for ease, but she doesn't need it or even necessarily initiates it, I can get her back down without, just takes a bit longer. I coulr manage with the next to me, just about, as I wasn't getting in and out of bed to put her down, but shes standing now so needed a proper cot, so now every 1-2 hours I'm getting out of bed, feedimg/rocking her, putting her down (not always first time) , getting back into bed, not being able to fall asleep straight away unlike before, then doing it all again and hour later. I'm absolutely exhausted and dealing with my 7 momth old and my 2m5 year old all day without help or nursery, so I get no breaks at all. I don't know how to help to situation as I can't change anything about day sleep schedules as I am absolutely dictated by these children as we live in a flat sp the baby regulary gets woken up by the toddler and then I'm unable to settle her back to sleep, or in unable to get her to sleep at the perfect point as I'm just too busy or my toddler is making noise or having a big emotion. I would happily cosleep (it's what I did first time round with my hourly waker) but we have no space for a bed to cosleep on. I need to figure out the route cause really. I don't even know why I'm writing this out, maybe advice, maybe just moral supprt, who knows 😂

Toddler sounds like he’s saying the N word.

So my son’s first sentence is “in the car” because he is obsessed with cars. But he says it fast and it sounds like he’s saying the N word and he says it ALOT in public and it feels embarrassing because I don’t want anyone to think that’s what he is saying . If you saw a toddler doing this would you feel like they’re being taught the N word? 😩

Ladies! say youre in the car with a hot man you just met and you have to fart sooooo bad

What are you doing? It happened to me last night. I held it in until I got home 😭 my stomach was bubbbling

Struggling with nights

I’m really struggling with nights. My baby wakes up at least every 1.5 hrs atm (he only slept 45 mins just now wahh!) and gets so worked up, is calmed by the boob and then gets wind, eventually burps and resettles and it starts again about 45 minutes later. All. Night. Long. I know the heat won’t be helping and he’ll be thirsty but I’m exhausted and needed to vent. I’ve seen pretty much every hour of every night since he was born. He’s my second baby but my first never did this. Any advice?

15m old terrible sleep

I’m at my complete wits end with my 15m old sleep. She is up for at least 2 hours in the middle of the night nearly every single night. With usually at least one other wake up aswell.

She only nap max 1.5hrs on any given day and her bedtime is 7.30 (by this point she is totally exhausted and we can’t stretch her any longer.

Does anyone have any advice at all? My partner wants to sleep train but I can’t bear the thought of letting her cry, but I am beyond exhausted and have such little patience for anything 😭 I’m also ill and have been sick quite a bit recently an I think it’s being run down due to lack of sleep 😭

Any advice at all would be appreciated

Okay my daughter will be 2 in November my first kid and honestly I’m not hitting her because she hits as well and it doesn’t makes to tell someone it’s not okay to hit, then hit her I’m learning and I used to pop but now she gets a time

Out . Anytime she hits or she’s not listening I put her in the pack and play for a time out I remove the things she interested in for bit so she know time out is punishment but how I get her to stop throwing her self back while having tantrum i try not to Interact while she having one so she knows that behavior doesn’t get her anything she communicates very well and lets me know what she wants and need but I just can’t get her to not do it at all I don’t like her hitting her head and I don’t want her to think that behavior is okay either so sorry for the long post