He snapped 😡

Really angry and just need to vent. So I was ill on Friday (just a really bad cough, headaches and sore throat) and had the baby all day which was fine and unavoidable. Wasn’t ideal but just kept her in the house and kept her entertained.

Baby daddy has caught it from me and when she woke up this morning we brought her in our bed like we do most days to just chill before I go and make her bottle. She started getting a bit whingey and I asked him to just watch her so she didn’t roll out- she’s 9 months and just started crawling so she really doesn’t sit still- and really nastily he went “oh shut up *name*” through gritted teeth when I tried to move her over to him and started crying a bit. He has done this once before and I told him not to speak to her like that as she now understands tone- just really upset me as even if I felt like shit I wouldn’t speak to her like that. Scares me as well that if I ever left him (other reasons), how would he speak to her when I’m not there.

Brought her downstairs with me and put her in the high chair whilst I made her bottle and we are now just chilling downstairs together but wondering if I am overreacting?!

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