Sterilising bottles

Have you stopped sterilising bottles yet? Or when are you planning to?

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Very concerned about breastfeeding

Hi all

I've always needed more sleep than most people [10 hours], and when I don't sleep I get irritable and moody. During the first trimester I really suffered, I cried everyday, and I stop functioning, I was so angry and depressed and that was because I woke up once every night at about 4am and then again at 6am

This thankfully went away and I felt like myself again but it was incredibly hard on me and my husband

Now we are very concerned at breastfeeding, my mother is pushing that I do it but I'm not willing to sacrifice my mental health and sleep anymore than I need too, I'm not the type of person that would be upset at formula feeding

Is it worth me giving it a try, we are just really concerned at my behaviour when I'm sleep deprived, and we are wondering if there is a point in risking that with a baby

If we formula feed I will still be sleep deprived but less so as my husband will do half the night shift [he is my hero]

Any realistic breastfeeding stories as my mum says the baby will start sleeping through the night after 2 months at that it will be easy

I have been cut off by people.

Okay so let’s try this again.

I am cut off by people who were at once a support system but love and have access to my baby but absolutely have turned on me. But at some point loved and adored me now hate me.

I know people don’t like people but I’m that horrible?

How do you handle that? And is it valid to feel hurt when you as the mom know they get to see baby but have nothing to do with you? Have lied and gossiped and had caused mental and emotional and distress.

To the flies on the wall, if you’re not going to offer support or respond the post it’s self no need to comment. 😁

Pram Fan Recommendations?

Bedt pram fan to get? Please share links if you can :)

Going out with baby

Hi! I have an almost 4 month old and honestly it’s been hard ever since my husband went back to work. I definitely have PPD and have been actively seeking help (therapy, support groups, etc.).

Going out with my baby gives me some anxiety, especially anything that requires me to commit to a time since I can’t predict her mood and if it’ll be during a time she wants to nap or not (trying my best to follow her cues). I like the idea of and curious about storytime at my local library but I don’t know what to expect — I read books to her at home but what does storytime look like for a 4 month old in a group setting? First time mom and new to all of this so please pardon if it sounds silly of a question or obvious.

My baby is pretty content in the car starting out, but if something does take too long due to traffic, she does get impatient/fussy/crying and I feel extra pressure to get home as soon as possible (and as safely as possible).

Any advice on going out to lessen my own anxiety? What has your experience been like in going out with your baby, especially at 4 months?