Who do you see for your yearly pelvic exam and pap?

As a teen I had a lady doctor who I saw for everything she ended up moving and I started seeing a man doctor. I love him he’s wonderful. My mom saw him before I did and wasn’t comfortable with him doing pelvic exams, so she went to the gynaecologist and also made my appointment with her gynaecologist. Since starting at that practice, I have delivered two children there and have met and welcomed all six doctors with open legs. But unless you’re pregnant it is a BITCH to get in to see them. I’m seeing a nurse practitioner and the soonest appointment they could get me is a month and a half away. My doctor left the office he was at to open a practice of his own, and in that time of him not seeing patients I ran out of my med and had to see a new doctor. Turns out I love her too! When I saw her last I had complained about my IUD not working how it should and she said if I ever wanted to replace it, she would be happy to do it. Until that point I had never even considered my primary doctor coming anywhere near my vagina. Now I think my IUD is out of place and I need to see a doctor soon. My man doctor has concierge service that I pay a monthly fee for and I can see him anytime I want, but we’re a little too friendly for me to think it’s okay for him to see my vagina. His wife, who is now my physical trainer, is also his nurse and would be the one in there while the exam is happening which adds an extra layer of weird. But my new lady doctor works for the hospital and uses insurance meaning I would have to pay (probably a lot) for the visit to remove and replace the iud.
If you’ve made it this far and didn’t just answer the poll and move on what would you do? Get over yourself and just feel weird for 10 minutes or pay extra just to feel comfy?

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Is this fucked or normal

Everything is such an exchange in my relationship. I’m gonna skip a bunch of shit. He thinks that if he makes an effort to take OUR son off my hands for a moment then I should have sex/be intimate whenever he feels like it. I’m with our toddler day in day out I don’t get a break, he comes with me to ALL my appointments … to the gym, everywhere. He NEVER has him because it’s my job to raise his son 🥴

Today I’m exhausted, sore & want to relax and he tells me I always reject him and we never have sex. It’s been 48 fucking hours since we had sex.

So he tried to guilt trip me into giving him a handjob and I said no. Then we argued about who does what and when and I was just like no. I cannot do this shit with a 40 year old man. I’m on the lounge now because wtf is wrong with him.

He keeps threatening to break up with me because I don’t give him intimacy whenever he wants which is crazy cause fuck you.

No wonder I hate men.

Feeling gross

So I was trying to seduce my husband because he was standing in the bedroom doorway when I took my nightgown off he just gave me a look that broke me he looked so disgusted by me now I'm left crying alone in the bedroom I don't know if its just my pregnancy hormones overreacting or if he actually gave me that look idk what to do

A little revenge

So I been going through a lot, found out my partner was cheating on me, got pregnant, got in a car accident and after a few weeks we got pregnant again, I shouldnt have taken him back bc he was still with the other girl. I was nice to tell the girl he was playing with both of us when I found out. Anyways she didn’t care. He didn’t want me to tell his parents so he try to harm me and the baby two nights in arrow before telling his parents, we talked after a whole misunderstanding since his family kick me out. I did post ànd expose him on social media which made them more angry, have it time ànd in two weeks he come back but just lying and bc I wanted my baby to grow with his dad I took him in but he was lying he was still with the other girl while telling me he wanted our little family and stuff. I ended up finding out and went to the girl again asking her the truth and he had been lying to her as well ànd rejecting our baby. Long story short I got so upset bc there is more, so I called and reported him to his work for stealing goods, and buddy punching manipulating his work time, as well as I reported the girl’s parents to immigration since they use fake papers to work. I know it’s bad 😭I should let karma or God take care of it but I can’t with all the pain 🥺I was being nice to both of them how could they? How can I turn this type of person that I’m not.

Routines please

Please can someone share their day/ night time routine. I know it’s early but I’m all over the shop 🥹🤣

When you randomly run into naked pictures of women selling sexual stuff ,how do you feel immediately?

Obviously to each their own ,I’m just curious what women think obviously we all mind our business.
We know men pretend to hate publicly but privately is different story.

Like what?

I don’t get why I see people asking for friends then you message them and they start off being so dry like you bothered them and there not interested to talk but there making 20 post talking about how they don’t have friends or need people to talk to ? What’s up with that