Is this fucked or normal
Everything is such an exchange in my relationship. I’m gonna skip a bunch of shit. He thinks that if he makes an effort to take OUR son off my hands for a moment then I should have sex/be intimate whenever he feels like it. I’m with our toddler day in day out I don’t get a break, he comes with me to ALL my appointments … to the gym, everywhere. He NEVER has him because it’s my job to raise his son 🥴
Today I’m exhausted, sore & want to relax and he tells me I always reject him and we never have sex. It’s been 48 fucking hours since we had sex.
So he tried to guilt trip me into giving him a handjob and I said no. Then we argued about who does what and when and I was just like no. I cannot do this shit with a 40 year old man. I’m on the lounge now because wtf is wrong with him.
He keeps threatening to break up with me because I don’t give him intimacy whenever he wants which is crazy cause fuck you.
No wonder I hate men.
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This isnt normal and is actually coercion which is a form of SA.
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Even if something is normal in the sense that it's common doesn't mean it's not fucked up. This is common and fucked up.
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