Is it normal for your husband/partner/other half to not know baby's routine because they aren't the primary carer?

If he didn't do it regularly like you said, sure. That's fine, he can learn it. But he does it half the week...why does he not know?

I just find these details don’t stay in their brains like they do in ours however often they do it.
I’d rather they check with me and ask, they’re probably just looking for confirmation and validation on the routine.
Also I don’t know about you but just as I got a decent routine set up and settled into, we had to change/adjust things 😂
Asking to me shows he cares enough to worry about getting it wrong.

My husband is a stay at home dad. There is literally no excuse if the routine hasn't changed from the normal. I knew his routine and I'd been away from home for 3 months 😅

i said give him grace but at the same time you should not lower your expectations.

I really wouldnt choose a time where these trying to adjust to name a million things hes doing wrong if hes asking its because he cares and complaining like this is why men leave hes asking to make sure because your mom

My husbands outta town for work 5 days a week and the only thing he needs updated on is if our youngest went up in ounces to drink when he makes a bottle he knows the rest of the routine

Me and my husband have slightly different routines for our son. We do our own thing, and both routines are the best routine because we are both his primary carers.

My husband works 9-5 Mon-Fri and knows the important things. He also does bedtime every night after me and her get out of the bath, and there’s been plenty of times where I’ve been caught up with her or something else and next thing I know hes getting her pjs and towel and bath ready.

A parent is a parent. They should know how to parent.

Normal at first but after a while they should be more aware x